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# 4299 Pick and Choose
Q. Kvod Harav. I as a Rabbi, was offered to enact two very different weddings on the same time but at different locations, and I cannot do both. One is a common young Frum couple, the other is an elderly couple in their late eighties that lost their partners and are getting married just to keep company.
Which marriage should I choose to perform?

A. Although, as you told me, the elderly couple are unable to have marital relations at their age, Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that the wife still has to immerse in a mikva after following the usual traditions.

The Rov also maintains that the usual brochos are recited at the chupa of the elderly, followed by the customary Yichud seclusion.

The Rov’s Shlit’a opinion is that although it is a very great mitzva to help the elderly couple in their quest to enjoy relief of loneliness and obtain such necessary mutual help at that difficult age, it is still a greater mitzva to perform the wedding of the young couple, that is able to procreate and establish a new family with children.

Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by Horav Shlomo Miller, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller and Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu Shlit’a


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# 4298 Hold on to the Baby?
Q. I know there is a minhag for pregnant women or those of childbearing age not to go to a funeral. Is there a Halacha or minhag not to bring babies to a funeral or Shiva house?
What can be done when suddenly the mother has to attend the Levaya of a close relative or friend and does not have a babysitter?

A. Indeed different traditions are quoted by Poskim regarding women attending a funeral or entering a graveyard.
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that one should follow his own minhagim and the customs of the local Chevra Kadisha and Beis Olam (cementery).

The Rov also mentioned that in need one may bring a baby to a funeral procession, funeral home or a Shiva house as long as it does not disturb the others present.

Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by Horav Shlomo Miller, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller and Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu Shlit’a


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# 4297 Order in Law
Q. After davening during Shabbat it is common in a shul to collect the sidurim or chumashim and placed them in order on the usual shelfs. Is there a problem of Borer (prohibited choosing act on Shabbat) especially at the night tefilah?

A. On question 2226 we wrote: Poskim rule that when sefarim are arranged in order on a shelf, one next to the other, since they are not piled or mixed, there is no borer involved and one may take the sefer he desires, even it is to be used later on. (Lehoros Nossan 3: 22, Meor Hashabbos 4, Maaseh Ish p. 109 quoting Chazon Ish and others).

However, some maintain that the above applies only when the name or the kind of a sefer can be easily recognized by its color or clear written title. Otherwise it may be considered as being in a mixed pile. (Shemiras Shabbos K’. 3: 220, quoting Horav S.Z. Auerbach zt’l),

When many sefarim are piled on a table, one on top of the other, it is prohibited in principle to pick them and organize them, if they are needed later on.
Poskim mention some exceptions. As when sidurim that are of one single nusach, but some are larger or newer and therefore in principle, could be readily be used by all. In that case, there may not be a issue of borer at all, since all sidurim are seen as only one single kind of items. (Piskei Teshuvos 319: n.191).

Others permit when one picks the different seforim one by one, and reads from each a bit, before he places it on their new selected location. (Oz Nidberu 8: 9, ibid: n. 192). Some maintain that just taking the very one on top of the pile each time, is not included in the borer prohibition (ibid. 193). There are opinions that are lenient, when the seforim find themselves in an exposed or dishonorable situation (Mishne Halochos 15: 114, Yabia Omer 5: 31, et al.).

Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that one should be machmir and not reorder sidurim of a different nusach for later use., if they are not clearly and distinctly recognizable and well marked, However, one does not have to rebuke the one who is lenient and does so.

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# 4296 Best to Choose the Best
Q. . Regarding mixtures as they pertain to the Melacha of Borer (sorting), I have a few questions.
1) -If I have a challah (bread) in the freezer among other food items, is it considered part of a mixture so that I cannot take it out at night for the day meal? does it matter if I can see it upon opening the freezer?

A. If the challah is separate from other items that are different and stands by itself, there is no problem in taking it out of the freezer at night.

2) - If that challah is just on a shelf with other challahs of a different sort (like whole wheat, spelt , etc, ) is it a mixture? can I take out the specific one I want at night for the day meal?

A. In this particular case it is a mixture and it cannot be taken out unless one is to use immediately.

3) - If I have a pile of dinner plates under a pile of soup bowls in my cupboard, is it a mixture? do I have to wait until right before the meal if I want to use the dinner plates only?

A. In this particular case since the plates are easily recognizable and different and they are not mixed, there is no issue of ‘Borer’ (see next question).


Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by Horav Shlomo Miller, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller and Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu Shlit’a


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# 4295 Feel at Home
Q. One of the Gedolei Hador came to my neighbourhood and his Schachris minyan, was conducted in a house and open to the public. Is it better to daven in my Makom Kavua (establihed place) in Beis Hamedrash, or in the house with the Gadol?

Once one attended the Gadol’s minyan once or twice should he go back to davening in his Beis Hamedrash or rather continue davening by the Gadol?

A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that it is permitted to daven with the Gadol Haddor.
As far as continuing extensively depends on other factors such as the spiritual benefits attained and a Rov familiar with the situation should be consulted.

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# 4294 Cat Out of the Bag?
Q. Can I feed my cat food that contains in its ingredients meat even of chickens and milk ingredients together?

A. The prohibition of eating meat and milk together is based on the Torah command: "Do not cook a kid in its mother's milk" (Exodus 23:19). Not only is the eating of meat and milk in combination prohibited but as the pasuk quoted mentions even the act of cooking them together is prohibited, as well as deriving benefit from such a mixture.

As a safeguard, the Sages disallow the eating of meat and dairy products at the same meal, or preparing them with the same utensils. Therefore, a kosher kitchen must have two separate sets of pots, pans, plates and silverware – one for meat/poultry and the other for dairy foods.

On question 64 regarding if a nurse serve a non Jewish patient meals that contain cooked meat and milk, we wrote: “Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit”a opinion is that it is permitted in need only, since there are several “Sfeikos” or doubts as to the nature of the prohibition in most common cases. Probably only a Rabbinical prohibition of Basar Vehalav is involved. The preparation may not entail the required act of Bishul or cooking proscribed by Halocho. There is also doubt as to what kind of meat and milk is being used and the amounts involved. All the above will create a ‘Sfeik Sfeiko’ or double doubt condition, which albeit still prohibited for consumption, would render the meal permitted for benefit.”

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# 4293 Stranger’s Dangers
Q. Can I buy cat-food that has chicken and fish oil in it? What about a mixture of beef and fish, is that dangerous for animals as well as people?

A. Talmud Pesachim (76b) mentions that one may not cook meat and fish together since this mixture is considered to be dangerous.
Shulchan Aruch (Y.D. 116: 2-3) explains that it can be a factor in severe illness as leprosy. Magen Avrohom (O.H. 173: 1) debates whether this danger still prevails in our days. However, our tradition is still to avoid eating them together.

Pischei Teshuvo (ibid. 2) quotes Shebus Yaakov (2: 102) that the above also applies to meat from fowls also.

However, it seems obvious that it applies only to humans, since other prohibitions of Sakana (danger) also only apply to humans
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# 4292 Sign Away

Q. See question above. Thank you for your prompt answer. I have also seen often in Kesuvos written specially by an artist or the Chattan himself that there is a considerable separation between the text and the lines for the signatures. Is that also permitted after the fact?

A. The concern of having a significant gap between the last line of text and the signature lines is recorded in Shulchan Aruch. (Choshen Mishpat 45: 6). The reason is to prevent forgeries, since there is enough place to add falsehoods. The space should be less than two lines. (Nachlas Shiva 2, Kesuva Kehilcheso p. 53).
However, some Poskim permit after the fact (Mishpetei Kesuvo p. 359, Kesuva Kehilcheso ibid.)

Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that one should add an additional signature over the others, to reduce that space.

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# 4291 Sign of the Times
Q. Dear Rov I was at a wedding recently and I saw that the signature of one the witnesses at the Ketuba (marriage document) was almost illegible, you could not tell who signed it. Is that Ketuba Kasher.
Does the marriage ceremony have to be repeated?

A. Lechatchila (on the onset) the witnesses should write their full name and their father’s name clearly and without abbreviations, so anyone who reads it will know who they are.

However, after the fact the Kesuva is acceptable when legal signatures are on it. (Yafe La’alev E.H. 66: 5, Teshuvos Vehanhogos 1: 758, Kesuva Kehilcheso p. 53}

Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is similar.

Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by Horav Shlomo Miller, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller and Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu Shlit’a


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# 4290 Cut the Cut
Q. Re- question above of not performing a Bris Mila on Shabbos for a baby whose father isn’t Jewish. If a child is born by IVF from an egg donated by a Gentile mother, is the Bris done in Shabbat?

A. In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) using mature eggs collected (retrieved) from ovaries and fertilized by sperm in a lab, is not uncommon in our days. In the case above, likely the baby will require conversion, and the Bris therefore cannot be done on Shabbos.

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# 4289 So Glad To Hear That
Q. On question above If someone wakes up in the middle of the night and can’t sleep, if he turns on his cell phone and listens to a shiur, does he have to recite the Bracha on the Torah?

A. As mentioned above, one who just thinks in his mind Torah does not have to recite the brocho. However, Poskim rule that if one hears words of Torah said by others, he should say the brocho. The reason being that we have a rule “Shomea K’eone, one that listens is similar to one that says, and that applies to all blessings like Kiddush, Hamotzi, Shofar, etc. Therefore, hearing a shiur or words of Torah, according to many Poskim does require the brocho. The above is the rule and practice when receiving an Aliya to the reading of the Torah. (Machazik Brocho, Nefesh Chayo and others).

Whether, it applies to someone listening to a shiur on the phone, tape or radio, Piskei Teshuvos (47: n. 59) quotes Halichos Shlomo that considered the shaila and maintains that one should recite the brocho. Therefore, one that travels to shul by car in the morning and listens to a Torah tape, should see to recite the brocho before.

Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by Horav Shlomo Miller, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller and Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu Shlit’a



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# 4288 Food for Thought
Q. We usually assume that just thinking thoughts of Torah while one wakes up in the night does not require to make the bracha on the Torah, is that correct?

A. On question 1434 we addressed the Shaila if one can make a Siyum if certain parts of the Masechta which were learned mentally, but not verbalized. To what we answered:

Shulchan Aruch (O.H. 47: 4) rules that one may think in his mind thoughts of Torah without previously reciting the bracha on the Torah, presumably because he does not comply with the mitzva of learning Torah just by thinking or meditating Torah ideas. However, Mishna Berura (ibid. 7) quotes Hagra’'s opinion that one should recite the bracha before engaging in Torah thoughts. (See Biur Halacha. ibid) Poskim explain that there are various different mitzvos involved in Torah learning. One of them is ”vehagisa.” This book of the Torah shall not leave your mouth; you shall meditate therein day and night. (Yehoshua 1:8, See Sefer Charedim 11 Tziunum Latorah 9.)

See question 270 where we mention Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlita opinion that you may perform a siyum on Torah learning done just by listening to a tape, as it is considered learning.

Therefore, Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlita opinion is that you can make a siyum when finishing a masechta that was learned in any language and even if it was learned only mentally, since it is considered learning Torah. (See similar ruling in Ohel Tomid quoting Horav Eliashiv zt’l.

Yet, in practice if one’s hands are clean, one may indeed engage in Torah thoughts while awake at night, before reciting the brocho on the Torah.

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# 4287 Blessings in Disguise?
Q. If one is speaking words of Torah in a conference or at a celebration and all or even some of his listeners are people who usually one does not expect that they said Birchat Hatorah on that day, is he permitted to continue? Maybe he should recite for them before the bracha? Should he ask one of them to recite it now?

A. On similar question 468 we wrote: “The widely accepted custom is that it is permitted to say or teach Torah to people who have not recited the prior brocho to its study. Throughout generations we have witnessed Gedolim speak at simchas or say eulogies when many of the presents were not necessarily frum yet.

The reason why we don’t incur in the prohibition of Lifnei Iver (placing a stumbling block before the blind, Vayikro 19:14) or at least of Mesayea ledvar aveiro (helping someone perform a prohibited act) is explained by Horav Silverstein Shlit”a quoting Horav Eliashuv zt”l (Aleinu Leshaveach 5 p.636) namely that unlike Birchos Hanehenin (brochos on food etc.) where there is an actual prohibition of eating without a brocho, there is no proscription of learning Torah without first reciting its brocho. He also adds that it is likely that the yet non-frum listener may not have any intention for complying with the mitzvah of learning Torah so no brocho would be required anyway.

Horav Shlomo Miller Shlit”a agrees with the above and added that there may be even a prohibition on reciting birchas Hatorah exclusively for them, since they do not yet have emunah the blessing may be in vane.”

As far as asking one of them to recite the brocho, Horav Aharon Miller Shlit’a mentioned that since he does not yet normally recite this brocho, its value may be questionable
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# 4286 Don’t Lose Sleep Over This
Q. Querido Rabino. I sending you a popular question from our distant past and everyone’s present. If someone takes during the middle of the day a ‘siesta’ and sleeps for a couple of hours, does he have to make a Birchat Hatora when he begins learning Torah after he wakes up?

A. This Shaila is actually popular for many elderly everywhere, that often enjoy a ‘siesta’ in the middle of the day.

Shulchan Aruch (O.H. 47: 11), quotes two dissenting opinions on ‘Shinas Kebba’ or established sleep on one’s bed during the day, if it creates an interruption and is similar to the sleep at night. The above will require a new blessing of the Torah when one wakes up. He mentions that the custom is not to recite a new blessing when one wakes up.
However, Mishna Berura (ibid. 25) after also quoting other Poskim, rules that it is accepted if one decides to recite a new brocho on the Torah.

Piskei Teshuvos (ibid 14) quotes many other opinions that it is better not to recite a new brocho. He mentions that in such a case, preferably one should recite the blessing on the Torah without mentioning Hashem’s name or just repeat it in his mind. He adds, that if one is close to davening Maariv, he should have in mind to comply with the blessing of Ahavas Olam and after the end of the Tefila, learn immediately some words of Torah.

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#4285 A Cut Above the Rest
Q. Dear Rov, I recently overheard a very Frum Mohel refusing to do a Brith Mila on Shabbos, when he was told that the father of the newborn is not Jewish. It made me very angry that he was neglecting to be friendly and mekarev a family that could be turned into proper Baalei Teshuva. Could what be said be correct? After all we follow the mother’s status in determining what the child is, and the baby is Kosher!

A. Indeed many Poskim maintain that the Bris can be done on Shabbos (Pischei Teshuva Y.D. 266: 14, quoting Tiferes Lemoshe). As mentioned to me by some expert Moalim, that is the common tradition these days.

However, Maharam Shik (E.H. 100 – Y.D. 249) rules that the Bris should be avoided during Shabbos, since some Poskim disagree and maintain that such a child does require conversion. Beis Yitzchok (E.H. 29: 11) agrees.

Horav Kalman Ochs shlit'a maintains that  מדינא דגמרא one May NOT encourage the goy father to convert.

Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that it should not be done on Shabbos, to stress and emphasize that the father should convert properly
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# 4284 How Right You Are!
Q. I teach a daily shiur in our shul after davening to a group of about ten people. There is a second minyan in an adjoining room that davens at that time. On some occasions they don’t have someone that can read the Torah for them and they call me to read when the Sefer Torah is already on the bima. Do I have to stop my shiur and go read the Torah for them?

A. This is indeed a very difficult question to decide which is indeed the most important mitzva. On one side we have the teaching of Torah to the many. While on the other side we have a Sefer Torah on the Bima waiting to be read, and in a way placed in a disrespectful neglected position.

Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that there is an easy way out of the dilemma, and that is to get the best Torah reader available and have someone next to him read quietly and to his ears only from a Chumash that he can then repeat, while reading from the Torah.

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# 4283 Convincing the Converted
Q. See question above. Is there a mitzva to help people that want to convert and they are doing it with all the required prerequisites and right intentions?

A. Poskim disagree if one complies with a mitzva when converting properly someone to Judaism.
Raibad (Baalei Nefesh – end of Shaar Hatevila maintains it is a mitzva and has the source in Avraham Avinu and Sarah, converting multitudes. Therefore we recite a brocho “Asher Kideshanu Vetzivanu” at the conversion.

There is also proof from Talmud Yebamos 47b saying that when the conversion is correct and proper, it should be done immediately and not be postponed. The term used is; “Shihuei Mitzva Lo Meshahinon” or since we do not delay the compliance of a mitzva. Rashbatz echos this opinion (Zohar Horakia 28)
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However, Mishne Halachos 16: 92) disagrees and quotes opinions that question and assert that there is no such a mitzva mentioned in the Torah at all. He explains the above quotation from Yebamos, as a mitzva limited to the
convert only, since after all he will begin then complying with his new mitzvos.
Horav Kalman Ochs maintains that even according to the opinion there is a mitzva, it would only exist at the moment of conversion.

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# 4282 Mind Their Change?
Q. Shalom Rav. I’m attending college always having my head covered. Some of my friends in class are interested and want to convert to Judaism. What is the correct way for me to deal with these people that seriously want to convert? Should I just ignore them, or help them? How?

A. Tamud (Yebamos 47a) teaches that we discourage a potential convert who comes to convert in our days, when the Jews are in exile. The judges of the court should say to him: What did you see that motivated you to come to convert? Don’t you know that the Jewish people at the present time are anguished, suppressed, despised, and harassed, and hardships are frequently visited upon them?

However If he says: I know, and although I am unworthy of joining the Jewish people and sharing in their sorrow, I nevertheless desire to do so, then the court accepts him immediately to begin the conversion process.

The best way is likely to refer them to a responsible and qualified Beis Din or Rabbinical institution that commonly deals with this issues.

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# 4281 It Still is a Good Blessing

Q. Re- question 4276 you stated that If one made an Eruv Tavshilin, the purpose is to provide the permission to do a usually prohibited work in Yom Tov for Shabbos when needed. It fulfills it’s purpose whether one used it or not, so the bracha recited on it will not normally be an unnecessary blessing, and he is not obligated to do some Melacha (work) on Friday to avoid a Bracha L’vatala (an unnecessary blessing for the Eruv).

So why did Maran Rosh Yeshiva Zt’l insist that he needed to do melacha to avoid bracha levatala as was reported?

A. Moadim Uzmanim (7; 122) rules that even if one already did everything needed for Shabbos before Yom Tov began, one should still do and Eruv Tavshilin with a brocho.

However, Igrois Moshe (O.H. 5: 20) indeed disagrees and rules that if one is certain that he has done everything for Shabbos before Yom Tov, one should not recite a brocho before placing the Eruv.

In reality, most often people have to do something for on Yom Tov Erev Shabbos, so unless one is totally certain that nothing is needed the brocho should be said.

As we wrote: “the brocho recited on it will not normally be an unnecessary blessing.” even according the Igrois Moshe.

Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is similar.

Horav Aharon Miller Shlit’a added, that since one should wash before Shabbos begins his face, hands and feet, and that is done with hot water, there is normally a melacha done, and the brocho should be recited


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# 4280 Right On Time
Q. Hello, I like to do Shnaim Mikreh V'achad Targum early in the week. I live in Toronto and this week I had just about finished NASO when I realized its still Shavuot on Shabbat, so Naso won't be read until the next week.

Do I really have to re-do the whole thing or can I rely on the fact that Naso was started to be read in shul on Shabbat mincha last Shabbat?

A. Our group of Rabbonim were unanimous that you don’t have to repeat the weekly needed reading of twice the Hebrew Biblical text (Mikra) and once the Aramaic translation (Targum) of the Parsha (Naso).

The reason as you mentioned, it was read by you after it started to be read in shul on Shabbat Mincha last Shabbat, and you read them on time.

Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by Horav Shlomo Miller, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller and Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu Shlit’a


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