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#5102 For a Split Second
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? - Q. See question above. If we cannot reach an agreement, for this and other different minhagim, is it better that we should split and the new comers even if they are now a majority, should look for a new place?
A. As already mentio ....
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Posted 8/30/2024 11:26 AM |
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#5101 Divide and Loose
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- Q. We recently added a number of new members to our Beis Midrash and some have a very Chassidic background. Their leader mentioned that since Rosh Hashana is approaching and we are going to say and add many different tefilos, we should follow t ....
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Posted 8/30/2024 11:25 AM |
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#5100 – Shofar So Good
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- Q. See questions above. We were further wondering, if from the friends camping with us the only one that knows how to blow the shofar (more or less) is my talented son. The problem is that he is only twelve years old. Can he blow on this speci ....
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Posted 8/30/2024 11:22 AM |
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#5099 – Hazoom Es Hakol?
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- Q. See question above. In our special situation, can we maybe just zoom a blowing of the shofar, since after all it is only for a remembrance act?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit”a usual opinion is that any mitzva that involves verba ....
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Posted 8/30/2024 11:19 AM |
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#5098 Blow the Blow?
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- Q. Dear Rabbi. We are still traveling with our family and friends camping by the lake on our summer vacation trip. Be’H we plan to be back at the middle of next week. Since we Bechesed Hashem actually have a daily minyan and B’H we have davened ....
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Posted 8/30/2024 11:16 AM |
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#5097 Words of Honor
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– Q. See question above. Can one celebrate a Siyum on that day or should preferably postpone it.
A. Shulchan Aruch O.H. (580: 2) enumerates a list of days that were identified as days of mourning due to tragedies and d ....
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Posted 8/23/2024 10:15 AM |
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#5096 The Pogrom Program
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- Q. Rabenu Shlit’a. Is the 17th of Av a day for mourning?
A. The Hebron Massacre occurred on August 24, 2029. Sixty-seven Jewish men, women and children were slaughtered, and scores wounded, raped and maimed, by their Arab neighbors ....
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Posted 8/23/2024 10:09 AM |
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#5095 Prepared Properly for Party
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- Q. A Bride that has a family tradition on the day of her wedding to daven a special long mincha before entering the Chupa, if she thinks she will be too busy and engaged in the las minute details before the chupa and she may not be able to daven ....
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Posted 8/23/2024 10:04 AM |
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#5094 Dance at the Right Wedding!
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Q. Kvod Horav Shli”a. Should one choose when possible to get married on Tu Beav? Is there a special meaning and importance on getting married then?
A. Zohar (2 p. 195) mentions that Tu Beav is a day of Simcha and joy due to the Ilui ....
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Posted 8/23/2024 9:57 AM |
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#5093 - Marry Up?
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- Q. Is there an inyan (reason) of making a seuda on Tu Beav for women that are looking for a Shiduch. Our a bit modern shul would like to organize one, if yes how should it be done?
A. Indeed as the Talmud (end of Taanis) mentions, ....
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Posted 8/23/2024 9:53 AM |
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#5092 Have an Early Night?
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- Q. See question above. Does the same apply for one who davens Maariv after plag. If he learns after davening Maariv is that considered as learning at night?
A. Horav Yaakov Hirschman Shlit’a is hat even after plag it is technical ....
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Posted 8/23/2024 9:49 AM |
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#5091 Call It a Day?
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- Q. See question above. Dear Rov, I asked the same question above also to other Rabbis and they stressed more the importance of learning Torah at night, even in my stressful condition. Are they really wrong?
A. Dear friend, when in ....
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Posted 8/23/2024 9:47 AM |
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#5090 Have a Good Night
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- Q. I wonder if I have the opportunity to learn before davening in the morning, or to do it by attending a shiur at night when I’m already a bit tired, which is preferable?
I usually do so in the morning since I’m rested and it is f ....
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Posted 8/23/2024 9:44 AM |
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#5089 Have a Great Gut Yom Tov
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Q. Rabenu Shlit’a tonight is TU BEAV and as we heard in shul it is a very great Yom Tov. I know that we go to work on that day and there is not really any special mitzvot or tefilot said on that day as far as I can remember. Should one at least do ....
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Posted 8/18/2024 1:04 PM |
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#5088 The True Honoring of One’s Father
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Q. They are selling at our large shul the important Haftara of Shabbat Nachamu. As they are a number of Yohrzait candidates that would like to read , yet I have also yohrzait for my father ZT”L then, How important is it really?
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Posted 8/15/2024 11:42 PM |
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#5087 The Sooner the Better
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Q. I’m getting married next week for a third time, with a chupa done in a small Shul. Is it best to wait until after T'u Beav is over, or is it sufficient just after Shabbat Nachamu or even after the Tenth of Av?
A. Horav Yaako ....
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Posted 8/15/2024 11:12 PM |
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#5086 The Last Drink?
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- Q. Can one drink diluted fruit juice at the Seudas Hamafsekes (last meal before fasting begins)? It is very helpful for me. Can one take then a Lechaim zip?
A. Some Poskim permit drinking coffee or tea at the Seudas Hamafsekes (S ....
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Posted 8/15/2024 10:49 PM |
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#5085 – Sure Care to Cure?
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- Q. Rabbi I need help urgent. Never in my life (B”H), I had to take any medicine on a day of fasting. Now I need to take antibiotics. Which is the best Halacha way to swallow them on Tisha Beav? (need urgent answer!).
A. Firstly consu ....
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Posted 8/15/2024 10:22 PM |
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#5084 Fastest Fasting
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- Q. I’am a mother and B’H I have several young children. For serving my children on Tisha Beav fasting day, can I just taste a bit of the food and then spit it out, just to see if it is not too salty or too sweet?
A. Horav Yaak ....
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Posted 8/15/2024 10:08 PM |
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#5083 Kashes on Ashes?
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- Q. Does one have to dip only the bread at the Seudas Hamafsekes (last meal before fasting begins) in ashes or one should also put some ashes on the single cooked food permitted, commonly a hard boiled egg?
Can one deep the bread on exces ....
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Posted 8/15/2024 9:59 PM |
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