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# 3142 Put them to Good Use
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Q. Can we place on the geniza sefarim that are still usable but they are not used in our shul, since we have received lately better ones, (better print and condition, also more mefarshim), besides we need the place.
A. Chelkas Yaakov (1: 40) rules that if they can still be used it is not correct to send them to a Geniza. Rather they should be donated to an institution or to people who can use them. At least they should be kept in a side room or other storage area until that use is found.
Shevet Halevy (3: 15) rules that the above applies even if part of the pages are torn. since they can be fixed.
The above applies only to Seforim that have no mistakes or errors. (Piskei Teshuvos 154: 14).
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Posted 4/22/2021 10:56 PM |
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# 3141 Be Grateful for Small Blessings
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Q. If one ate a full meal that included an appetizer, soup, main dish and dessert. Then recited Birchat Hamazon, but didn't realize that the bread he ate was rice bread, did he comply with the Birchat Hamazon he said?
A. Shulchan Aruch (O.H. 208: 17) rules that Birchas Hamazon does not cover foods that their blessing is 'Al Hamichiya'. See also Mishna Berura (197: 16) that it also does not cover food that their first blessing is Shehakol and he has to recite the brocho of Bore Nefoshos.
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Posted 4/22/2021 10:46 PM |
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# 3140 Getting Our Act Together
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Q. On question 3119 you mentioned It would stand to reason that it is better to count Sefira after a Zoom shiur since Poskim write that on the onset it is better to count Sefiras Haomer together with a Tzibur and Rov Am or congregation. And although a Zoom group does not create a minyan and one does not even have to answer amen to a brocho recited by that media, for some purposes such as a Seudas Mitzva and a siyum it is effective. Besides Horav Aharon Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that it can have the effect of davening at home without a minyan, but at the same time that others are also davening which is preferred.
I just don't understand, if this Zoom group dose not constitute a minyan, why would it be considered as davening at the same time of a minyan? If ten people daven separately at their home, should I daven with them also?
A. Horav Aharon's Shlit'a opinion is that although there are not united in one location, it is still an "Eis Rotzon" or a favorable time, since after all 'Rov Am' or many are doing the mitzva at that same time.
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Posted 4/22/2021 10:36 PM |
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# 3139 At the Earliest Convenience
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Q. What is Horav Miller opinion as the earliest time to count sefira? taking into account that if they don't count in shul, some will likely forget.
A. Horav Aharon Miller Shlit'a informed us that Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is (the Rov is out of town), that in need one may recite sefira (in Toronto at the beginning of Sefira) forty minutes after the Shekia (and on great need even thirty five minutes)
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Posted 4/22/2021 10:14 PM |
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# 3138 Forgivness For Coming Late
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Q. On question 3114 you mentioned that the Shira when properly said and with the true joy of someone having just crossed the sea and saved his own life and the life of his dear ones, the Shira gains forgiveness for all the sins committed, as Mishna Berurah (51: 17) quotes from the Zohar. And since women also sang the Shira as mentioned in Parshas Beshalach, it is reasonable that they are included in the same principle.
Should a man who came late to davening and omitted the Shira to be able to daven with the minyan, say the shira after davening with great simcha as women should do?
A. Shulchan Aruch (O.H. 52) rules that one who missed Pesukei Dezimra before the Amida should recite them after. It is reasonable that he has to recite the Shira in a way similar to before.
Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is similar.
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Posted 4/22/2021 10:07 PM |
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# 3137 An Extended Blessing
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Q. How long after the birth of the baby girl can the mother still say Shehecheyanu? (See question 3133).
A. Mishna Berura (223: 3) quoting P'ri Megodim maintains one can recite the brocho as long as she feels the novelty. Teshuvos Vehanhogos (1: 200) explains that it is as long as the parents engage in telling relatives and friends the good news.
However, Mor Uketzia (224) asserts that it should not be recited after three days,
Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that it can be recited for even thirty days after the birth.
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Posted 4/22/2021 9:56 PM |
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# 3136 Saving Who's Life?
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Q. If an elder patient waiting for a life saving organ transplant is given a date, but he knows a young yeshiva bochur who needs the same transplant, can he offer his place in the list? (he will only be removed one or two places).
A. To answer correctly this question more detailed information is needed. Such as the degree of danger to the life of both patients, the amount of time that would be added to the wait for the first recipient etc.
In principle we rule that 'Ones life preempts the life of others' (Bava Metzia 62a). However, up to a certain degree one is permitted to risk his life to save others.
Since all cases are different, and they are many crucial and variable details to every situation, Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that questions on specific cases, should be answered by competent Rabbinical and Medical authorities, working together and familiar with the details of the case.
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Posted 4/19/2021 2:49 PM |
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# 3135 Hartzige Music During Sefira
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Q. What does the Rav hold regarding listening to Hartzige music "nigunei neshama" during sefira?
A. On question 1313 we wrote: See questions1305 and 1312 above in regards to what kind of music is permitted during Sefira.
Although, Oz Nidberu (8: 58), Shevet Halevi (8: 127), Tzitz Eliezer (15: 33) and others prohibit listening to taped vocal singing even without instrumental accompaniment, many Poskim permit just plain singing songs of praise, thanks and dveikus to Hashem even on a seudas mereius (a meal gathering of friends) when no dancing is involved. (Aruch Hashulchan 493: 2, Shulchan Aruch Horav ibid :1. See Igrois Moishe E.H. 1: 98, in regards to occasions of intense joy).
A single individual singing to himself when learning or davening etc,. is plainly permitted (Piskei Teshuvos 493: 4, Nitei Gavriel – Bein Hametzorim 15: 11). Still, Leket Yoisher quotes, that his rebbi, the Terumas Hadeshen, would not sing at all during Sefira days. Yosef Ometz (p. 128) mentions that this was also the tradition of the kehila of Frankfurt-Am-Main.
Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that as long as the tunes are sober and not over-joyous, the benefit, healing and well-being created by singing to the stroke patients and paralyzed individuals, preempts and supersedes all the above issues, even during the Nine Days, since the songs are not for joyfulness they are not prohibited.
The Rov maintains that the chessed done to others in distress and in pain, is the greatest segula and source of brocho and hatzlocho
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Posted 4/19/2021 2:37 PM |
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# 3134 If the Shoe Fits Bless It
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Q. If someone bought some expensive shoes for Pesach that he usually makes sheheyanu on them, but did not use them then. Can he wear them on Shabbos after Pesach and say the brocho?
A. See question above regarding reciting Shehecheyanu when a baby girl is born during Sefiras Haomer.
On question 539 regarding a new suit bought before Pesach but not used then, since it was only shatnez tested after Pesach. If one can wear it for Shabbos during sefira and say Shehecheyanu, we wrote: Mishna Berura (493: 2) and Kaf Hachaim (ibid.) rule that if someone came across an item on which normally we recite shehecheyanu, he should recite so during sefira.
Other Poiskim however, mention different minhogim and opinions, and maintain that the common tradition is not to recite this brocho; some recommend doing so on Shabbos (Leket Hayosher p.97, Dover Meshorim 26.)
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit”a opinion is that definitely on Shabbos he is permitted to wear the suit and recite Shehecheyanu. (See also question 2269)
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Posted 4/19/2021 2:28 PM |
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# 3133 A Blessing Happy Mother
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Q. Does the mother say Shecheyanu on the birth of her daughter? Does she say it also during the days of Sefira?
A. Mishna Berura (223: 2) maintains that the father and the mother, when they actually see the newborn daughter should recite Shechecheyanu. Other Poskim rule similarly (Orchos Rabbeinu 1: p. 92, Tzitz Eliezer 13: 20: Piskei Teshuvos 223: 1). And as in the prior question the mother can recite the brocho during Sefira.
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Posted 4/19/2021 2:14 PM |
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# 3132 Sefira Baby Blessings
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Q. If someone had a baby girl during the mourning weeks of Sefiras Haomer, should he recite the brocho of Shehecheyanu?
A. Poskim disagree if there is a source or reason at all, to avoid reciting Shehecheyanu during the weeks of Sefira, some maintain there is not. (Levushei Mordechai 153, Likutei Mahariach, Keren Ledovid 119 and others).
Others maintain there is and should be avoided. (Eliahu Zuta 493, quoting Rabbenu Yerucham, and others).
Mishna Berura (493: 2) quotes Ma'amar Mordechai that although our tradition is to avoid reciting Shehecheyanu during the weeks of Sefira, when one does encounter such an occasion, one may recite this brocho. Kovetz Halochos (8: 5) rules similarly.
Some maintain, that when possible one should wait until Shabbos (Leket Yosher p.97, Dover Meshorim 26. and others). The above may not apply to the brocho of Shehecheyanu recited for a new born, since it has a time limit. (See next questions).
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Posted 4/19/2021 2:09 PM |
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# 3131 Adding or Subtracting?
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Q. On above question 3130: The Taalesim also had the unusual condition of having the small added corner patches on both sides of the cloth. Is that correct?
A. It stands to reason that since now on this particular Taalis one cannot tell which side is facing front or back as you can with regular taalesim, and you may end with constantly changing the Tzitzis of the right side to the left, which is incorrect, as we learn from the beams of the Mishkan, that were marked to maintain there usual place and order.
Therefore a mark should be placed to indicate the front from the back of the Taalis Kotton.
Horav Aharon Miller's Shlit'a opinion is similar.
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Posted 4/18/2021 5:31 PM |
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# 3130 Make Whole the Hole
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Q. I received from Eretz Yisroel some Taalesim Ketanim that I requested. But they had the Tzitzis installed following the minhag of two adjacent openings and the tzitzis hanging in the front only. Since that is not my minhag and I'm unable to return them, I decided to remove the threads, and reinstall them following my tradition of only using one hole. Which of the two should I use?
A. Horav Aharon Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that in principle it does not matter. However, one should measure the distances, since one may be more correct in Halacha than the other.
Horav Yaakov Hirschman Shlit'a recommended that he should use the same (closer or further) opening for all four corners.
Others suggested to convert if possible the two adjacent openings into a single one.
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Posted 4/14/2021 10:30 AM |
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# 3129 The Bottom of the Food Chain?
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Q. Should not all medical pills be permitted during Pesach or when from an non-kosher source during the whole year, since they are after all a non edible food that even dogs would not eat?
A. Indeed Poskim do mention that reason as a heter or permission even for the sick who are not in life danger (Minchas Shlomo 1: 17, Shemiras Shabbos K. (19: 33) quotes R.S.Z. Auerbach zt'l that this may apply even to sweet quoted pills. However, Har Tzvi Y.D. 97, and others debate the issue.
Other Poskim maintain that one should be stringent, since after all if one is eating them, it becomes a case of 'Achshevei' or one considers and turns them into food.
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Posted 4/13/2021 9:52 PM |
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# 3128 A Taste of One's Own Medicine
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Q. Would it be better for someone needing to take questionable pills on Pesach, or any other time if they could be non kosher, to wait and take them after a heavy meal when one is completely satiated. At that state it would be considered an Achila Gassah or gluttonous eating and therefore permitted?
A. In principle, indeed Achila Gassah or gluttonous overeating is not considered usually a natural act of eating.
However, Poskim stress that it applies when one actually feels revulsion and repugnance to eating anymore. (Yumah 80b. See also Tosafos Pesachim 107b ,'Dilma").
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Posted 4/13/2021 5:59 PM |
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# 3127 Didn't Remember To Remember
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Q. If one was asked by a friend who is unable to come to shul to say Izkor for his parents, but didn't open the email or forgot the request. What should he do? Does he have to inform his friend that he didn't comply with his request?
A. It stands to reason as mentioned in the earlier question 3125, that when he has the opportunity and it is permitted to recite a Kel Male Rachamim by the reading of the Torah, he should do as he was requested.
Horav Aharon Miller Shlit'a also maintains that he does not have to tell his friend that his request was not met, as it may create unnecessary issues of stress and tension between them.
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Posted 4/12/2021 2:57 PM |
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# 3126 A Hard Pill to Swallow II
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Q. On a question 3122 above regarding swallowing pills for someone who has to take them during Pesach that may contain Kitniyos, you answered that it is not permitted.
I don't understand isn't any deviation of the normal way of doing a mitzva or an avera,(sin) a shinui (change) that removes the Biblical prohibition?
A. As we wrote, in principle one who eats prohibited foods in an unnatural or unusual way, will not transgress a Biblical law, (Pesachim 24b, Rambam -Yesodei Harorah 5: 8, Mishne Lemelech idid.).
However, swallowing without chewing is not considered an unusual way. (Nodah Beyehuda Y.D 1: 35, Chelkas Yoav - Y.D. 9 - unless the food is very hot). This opinion followed by many Poskim.
Nevertheless, Toras Chaim (Chulin, 120b) does permit. See also Minchas Shlomo (1; 17).
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Posted 4/12/2021 2:51 PM |
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# 3125 Forgot the Remembrance Light
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Q. What should one do if one forgets to light an Izkor candle for parents as he always lights?
A. On question 2942 regarding If someone forgot to kindle a Yohrzait candle on that day for a father or mother, what is the correct thing to do, we wrote: 'If one forgot to kindle a Yorzait candle on that day for a father or mother, Yehuda Yaale (Y.D. 315) rules that he should donate the value of the light for tzedaka.
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that he should light a candle the day he remembers. Lighting the candle in the morning is also after the fact acceptable.'
However, regarding Izkor candles or Yohrtzait candles to be lit on Yom Tov itself, Poskim disagree if it is permitted or no. Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 98: 1, prohibits lighting a Yohrzait candle during Yom Tov.
Horav Aharon Miller mentioned that Horav Shlomo would be particular to also light the Izkor candles before the beginning of the first day of Yom Tov.
He quoted that nevertheless, Biur Halocho (514 d'h Ner) permits to light a Yohrzait candle in need inside the room one eats on Yom Tov as it adds more brightness and it becomes a needed light. Still, Biur Halocho recommends to light it in shul for the honor of his parents. (See also Tzitz Eliezer 6: 10, Arugas Habossem 110 and others).
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Posted 4/12/2021 2:36 PM |
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# 3124 Can't Live by Matza Alone
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Q. During one of the days of Pesach I had left over a large piece of Shmura Matza from a meat meal; Next day I wondered if I could eat for breakfast cheese with the leftover Matza. Is that permitted?
A. Shulchan Aruch (Y.D. 89: 4) rules that one should not use the same bread that was used for meat, when eating milk products or vice-versa. Poskim permit when one was careful to place only some slices of bread on the table and separated the remaining ones. (ibid. 91: 4, see also Igros Moshe Y.D. 1: 38).
It is reasonable that the same limitations would apply to matza.
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Posted 4/11/2021 10:07 PM |
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# 3123 Seeing Eye to Eye
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Q. In 2017 my optometrist, saw a hole in my left retina, and was able to book me in fast, to see a Retinologist, who in turn was able to seal the hole in my retina by laser on that very same day. Failure to act promptly to a torn retina often results in irreversible blindness.
Now I have been found with a thinning in the retina, it's getting ready to become a hole; I have been booked again, however it turned out to be on the 2nd day of Shavuot. The appointments cannot be delayed without greatly increasing the risk.
My Main Question is: Is the risk of loosing the eyesight of one eye considered to be a life-threatening issue that permits to travel to the hospital on Yom Tov (second day) and having done that operation. (The doctors are not Jewish). Could this have been done on the first day of Yom Tov?
A. Shulchan Aruch (O.H. 328: 9) rules that illness of the eyes is treated as a life threatening disease and in need one can desecrate Shabbos as medically required to save the eye. Certainly in your case it would be permitted to travel to the hospital for the necessary eye saving operation.
Please contact Bikur Cholim, as the will advise you how to contract Uber and get the necessary transportation that does not need to be paid on Yom Tov. It is proffered that when possible you should stay in the hospital until the end of Yom Tov.
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Posted 4/11/2021 9:54 PM |
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