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Parshas Balak
In this week’s Parsha, Balak, we learn a practical and crucial lesson.  Bila’am himself, the nations’ greatest prophet, saddles his own donkey in order to attempt to curse B’nai Yisroel (Bamidbar 22:21).  Rashi there writes that Hashem acknowledged Bila’am’s dedication and zeal to curse the people--putting aside his own extreme arrogance, and undertaking a task reserved for menial workers.  However, Hashem exclaimed “Rasha!  Avraham Avinu preceded you, when he saddled his own donkey as a 137 year-old man in order to take Yitzchak to the Akeida.”  Accordingly, Bila’am’s “Lishma”--his enthusiasm and devotion to do the aveira--was superseded and overcome by Avraham’s love and sincerity in performing his particular mitzvah.

There is a great lesson to be drawn here.  We must be a step ahead, and proactive in our mitzvah performance.  In war, one wins only by taking the offensive, and will not succeed merely by demonstrating great defensive maneuvers, no matter how valuable and important they may be.  This being said, we must realize that we cannot wait simply for mitzvos to come to us--we should seek out mitzvos to perform.  It is frightening to think about what could have happened if Avraham Avinu had not “made the first move.”  This same concept is reflected in Megillah 14A, where Chazal advise us that our donations of Shekalim to the Bais HaMikdash preempted and overcame Haman’s exorbitant 10,000 talents of silver, saving K’lal Yisroel from extinction.

Today, let us try to demonstrate how we, in our own personal lives, can advance those Shekalim, or even saddle that donkey, in order to demonstrate and improve our special relationship with Hashem.  It would be best to pick a “Mes Mitzvah”--a mitzvah that you feel is neglected by you or others around you--yet should and could be performed by you--even if, at first blush, it may not seem easy.

Think for a few moments.  Is it making a private “Shidduch meeting” with your friends to think about those who are single?  Is it to start a new Gemach in your neighborhood?  Is it to make sure to compliment at least one person a day every day for the next 30 days?  Is it to close your eyes when you say the name of Hashem when reciting a brocha before and after food?  Is it to make sure that you have learned at least something--a Pasuk, a Mishna, a Vort, after Shacharis and Maariv?  Is it to go over to the poor person and give him Tzedaka before he comes to you? ...

We, too, can act like our forefather Avraham Avinu, and like our forefathers who donated the Shekalim.  We, too, can bring success we so desperately need to our generation and to all future generations as well!  All we need to do is take action!  Now!  Today!
 
Additional interesting note:  In this week’s Parsha, we find the Pasuk that one recites upon entering a Shul “Ma Tovu Ohalecha” (Bamidbar 24:5).  At first blush, it may seem strange to us that we recite a Pasuk first expressed by Bila‘am as we enter our Shul for the first time in the day.  However, upon reflection, we must realize that all of the brochos in tomorrow’s Parsha are really the mirror image of the intense klalos--the sincere and penetrating curses--that Bila’am really intended to give to Klal Yisroel.  Hashem, in turn, flipped and reversed these klalos into brochos.  They undoubtedly retained their extreme potency and poignancy.  Our Shuls are places of intense brocha!  Every time we enter a Shul and recite this verse, we should have in mind the great brocha that Hashem has bestowed upon us--a Sanctuary of Kedusha and Dveykus B’Hashem!



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Chukas - Rav Wolbe z"tl
Bnei Yisroel, during their trek toward Eretz Yisroel, sent messengers to request of the king of Edom to allow them to peacefully pass through his land: "Our forefathers went down to Egypt and we dwelled in Egypt for many years and the Egyptians afflicted us and our fathers. We cried out to Hashem, He heard our voice and He sent an angel and took us out of Egypt. Now we stand in the city of Kodeish which borders on your land. Please allow us to pass through your land…" (Bamidbar 20, 15-17). To which Edom responded, "Do not pass through, lest I come out against you with the sword." Rashi explains that there was a deeper meaning behind their answer. They were telling Bnei Yisroel, "You pride yourself with the voice of prayer that your forefathers bequeathed to you, as you claimed, ’We cried out to Hashem and He answered your prayers.’ Well, we will greet you with what our forefathers bequeathed to us, ’And you will live by your sword.’"

Rav Wolbe asks (Shiurei Chumash Parshas Chukas) wouldn’t it have been more effective had Bnei Yisroel threatened them? They could have warned, "If you don’t allow us to pass through your land, we will destroy you just as we did to the nation of Amalek!" What message was Moshe trying to convey when he told Edom that Hashem listens to our prayers? The answer is that when we speak with the other nations, we must do so in the proper fashion. We should speak "our language" as opposed to theirs. We must bear in mind Bnei Yisroel’s essential characteristic and act accordingly. Bnei Yisroel operate with prayer, not with threats of war and annihilation.

Rav Hutner once related to Rav Wolbe that Rav Kook wrote a letter in which he stated that it is not possible to establish a truly proper Jewish homeland at the present time. Such a land would have to be run with kindness and righteousness, the trademarks of the Jewish people. Since the rest of the world is filled with politics and corruption, such a feat would be impossible. Bnei Yisroel have their own way of doing things which is often not in accordance with the way other nations act.

In a similar vein, the Torah relates that after the death of Aharon the nation of Canaan waged war against Bnei Yisroel and took captives. Bnei Yisroel prayed to Hashem to deliver their enemy into their hands and pledged to donate all the spoils toward the service of Hashem. Rashi explains that in reality only one maidservant was captured. Rav Wolbe notes that despite the fact that it was only one person, it was a major concern of Bnei Yisroel, for which they prayed and pledged charity. While other nations might overlook the capture or even death of countless citizens, the Jewish People do things differently.

This dvar Torah was compiled by the family of the Mashgiach Harav Shlomo ben R’ Moshe z"l, l’iluy nishmaso



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KORACH - by Rav Wolbe

The Torah tells us that not only were Korach and his cohorts swallowed alive; their wives and children also died in this extraordinary fashion. Rashi comments (Bamidbar 16, 27) that the gravity of this punishment helps us comprehend the severity of quarreling. While a court of law only punishes a man after he reaches the age of thirteen, and Heaven only punishes from the age of twenty, quarreling is so serious an infraction that even the nursing babies perished as a result. Why did the children, who were in no way involved in the dispute, deserve to die alongside their parents?

Rav Wolbe answers with the following Sforno. In the Aseres HaDibros we read, “Who visits the sin of the forefathers upon their children on the third and fourth generations.” The Sforno explains that Hashem waits until the fourth generation to mete out punishment, because when four consecutive generations sin in the same manner, the sin becomes entrenched - part and parcel of their very personality – and there is no hope that they will ever do teshuva. Similarly, the children of Korach were born into a situation where a terrible quarrel raged. The severity of machlokes is such that it can leave an indelible impression even on the second generation. Arguing would become part of their nature. Moreover, the knowledge that their fathers disagreed so adamantly with Moshe would cause them to forever second guess Moshe Rabbeinu’s qualifications as a leader. Therefore, the only option was for them to perish along with their parents, and thus effectively preventing any possibility of the continuation of this machlokes.

One of the six hundred and thirteen commandments is, “And one shall not be like Korach and his followers” (Bamidbar 17, 5). Rav Wolbe cautions that this commandment applies even when one has good intentions and acts for the sake of heaven. Nevertheless, he may not cause machlokes. One must be especially careful when he acts “lesheim shamayim” because he often thinks that this gives him the license to do as he pleases. The Mishna in Avos states, “Any argument in which people argue for the sake of heaven will endure… Any argument that is not for the sake of heaven will not endure.” Rav Yisroel Salanter explains this Mishna homiletically. When two businessmen get into an argument, at the end of the day they will make amends and drink a beer together. However, when one feels that he is arguing for the sake of heaven, the quarrel will never end. How could he give in when Heaven’s honor is at stake? Such a machlokes will endure forever!

Any machlokes, even with the best of intentions, can have terrible repercussions. The Alter of Kelm writes that Korach must have had truly lofty intentions, for if he did not, the pans he used to sacrifice the incense would not have become holy and would not have been converted into plating for the mizbeiach. Despite his intentions, the machlokes caused the demise of his entire family. This being the case, could there be any cause for which it is truly worthwhile to create a machlokes?

This dvar Torah was compiled by the family of the Mashgiach Harav Shlomo ben R’ Moshe z"l, l’iluy nishmaso



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Shelach - by Rav Wolbe
            In preparation of their imminent arrival in Eretz Yisrael, Bnei Yisroel sent twelve distinguished leaders to scout out the land. They failed in their mission when they returned with a derogatory report about the land that Hashem had told them was good, and in so doing, caused their entire generation to perish in the desert. Why were the most distinguished men chosen for this mission, and what clouded their perception to the point that they were convinced of their defeat should they enter the Land of Israel?

            Rav Wolbe (Shiurei Chumash Parshas Shelach) quotes the Chiddushei HaRim’s explanation of this infamous fiasco. Rashi on the first pasuk of the Torah tells us that the purpose of Creation was for the Jewish People and for Eretz Yisroel. Therefore, the sojourn of Bnei Yisroel in the desert was merely transient, because the true goal was life in the Land of Israel. However, the transition from living in the desert to life in their new country was not going to be an easy one. In the desert Bnei Yisroel survived on miracles. Their food fell from the heaven, their water poured forth from a rock; they were protected from all elements by the clouds of glory, and they had Moshe Rabbeinu who was a direct link to Hashem by means of “face to face” communication. This would all change as soon as they entered the new land and became subject to the laws of nature. Bnei Yisroel’s goal in the Land of Israel was to discern that nature is a mere facade, and it is Hashem Who provides them with sustenance and for all they lack. This was the very purpose of Creation and the key to Redemption.

            It was to this end that Bnei Yisroel spent a number of months in the desert. During this period of time they were to gain an awareness of Hashem’s control over all aspects of nature and His intimate involvement in every facet of their lives. They were to take this crystal clear perception of the workings of the world and bring it with them into Eretz Yisroel. This would give them the ability to distinguish Hashem’s hand behind the veil of nature and realize that it is He Who would provide for them in Eretz Yisroel no less than He had done when they were in the desert. The task was not an easy one, so Hashem said to send the greatest men of the generation to pave the way. They were to discover how it feels to out walk out of the clouds of glory and into nature; all the while being careful not to slip from their lofty spiritual level.

            It was exactly in this area that they failed. They entered the land and were greeted by giants, “And we were in our own eyes like grasshoppers and so we were in their eyes” (Bamidbar 13, 33).  The spies had perceived things as nature packaged them. They lost sight of Hashem’s involvement in all aspects of this world and, therefore, they were awed by giants who were nothing more than a big physical body. Had they all the while been cognizant of Hashem’s hashgacha, they would have looked at the giants no differently than had they been made from cardboard. The spies were not able to take the perception that they had gained from the time they had spent in the clouds of glory, and properly process what their natural eyes had seen. Thus, they failed in their mission.

            This is our goal and the purpose of Creation; to see Hashem behind the façade of nature and to realize that it is a no less a miracle when bread grows from the ground than when it falls from the sky.

 

This dvar Torah was compiled by the family of the Mashgiach Harav Shlomo ben R' Moshe z"l, l'iluy nishmaso

 

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SHELACH - Around the Sahbbos Table
The Torah tells us that the spies delivered a negative report about Eretz Yisrael. They prefaced their statement with positive words, "We arrived at the Land and indeed it flows with milk and honey, and this is its fruit." Then they said, "But the people that dwell in the Land are powerful, the cities are greatly fortified, and we also saw the offspring of the giant."
 
Although they started with a favorable description of the Land, they subsequently conveyed the enormous challenge of conquering the powerful nations that inhabited the Land.
 
Yet, we might respond that they were not at fault because they accurately reported the truth. After all, they realistically described both the good points and the bad points.
 
Yehoshua and Calev saw the same things that the other spies saw. However, they saw it through the lens of steadfast trust in HaShem. Therefore, they said, "The Land that we passed through is very, very good. If HaShem desires us, He will bring us to this Land and give it to us, a Land that flows with milk and honey."
 
In general, every one sees the same things and collects the same data. The difference lies in how we process the information. Whether we emphasize the good or bad reflects our life’s perspective.
 
Yehoshua and Calev had supreme confidence in HaShem’s assurance that Eretz Yisrael was a precious - and attainable - gift. Therefore, their view of the Land was colored with optimism, faith, and enthusiasm.
 
May we view all of life through the lens of unwavering trust in HaShem’s love, compassion, and kindness. In turn, HaShem will bless us with joy, success, and fulfillment.
 
TODAY: Focus on the good that you receive and fill your heart with gratitude and love of HaShem. 
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Beha'aloscha - by Rav Wolbe
Towards the end of the parsha, the Torah marks off two pasukim; placing an inverted nun before and after them. Rashi explains that this was done in order to separate between two different calamities which befell Bnei Yisroel. The Ramban elaborates that the first calamity occurred when Bnei Yisroel traveled from Har Sinai and joyfully took leave "like a child running away from school." He explains that it is possible that this incident was termed a calamity because had they not sinned, Hashem would have brought them into Eretz Yisroel immediately.

            Rav Wolbe writes (Alei Shur vol. II pgs. 629, 630) that in order to comprehend the sins related in the Torah we must elevate ourselves above our personal madreiga instead of bringing these events down to our level. If we could have asked anyone who experienced Matan Torah what they felt about leaving Har Sinai, we could be sure that they all would have answered that after experiencing Divine revelation and spiritual elevation it really was a shame that they had to leave so soon. These parshios describe the extent of the psychological perception divulged by the Torah. There is no way that the "Generation of Knowledge", or even the prophets who lived in their midst, were conscious of these thoughts. Nevertheless, Hashem, Who probes the recesses of a man’s heart, found them at fault for feeling deep down, "Okay, it’s time to move on."

              If we contemplate our situation after Yom Kippur, we might gain insight into the sins transgressed by the lofty generation of people who left Egypt. Is the dancing after Yom Kippur an expression of joy for achieving forgiveness, or is it a manifestation of the desire to throw off the yoke of the holiest day? Do the meal, the brachos and the ensuing conversation that follow the fast, reflect the holiness that permeated the day, or is it once again a demonstration of throwing off the yoke of Yom Kippur? Why is it that specifically after a day that is spiritual in its entirety, does one feel the need to "throw off the yoke"? The reason is that it is difficult to remain in a state of spiritual intensity for an extended period of time.

When Bnei Yisroel complained, "Who will feed us meat? We remember the fish that we ate in Mitzrayim for free; the gourds and melons…and now our souls are dry for there is nothing besides the manna" (Bamidbar 11, 4-5) they were not merely griping about a lack of vegetables. It was an expression of their desire to "step down" from the elevated level of those who ate only purely spiritual food. Similarly, when Bnei Yisroel left Har Sinai, they subconsciously desired to free themselves from a constant state of loftiness. The Torah states (ibid. 11, 20), "For you have become disgusted with Hashem" and Rashi explains, "If I had not planted My Shechina in your midst, you would not have become haughty to act this way."

The sins of that generation were caused by Hashem’s Shechina dwelling amongst them and are not comparable to the sins of those living today. Moreover, they were not even conscious of those thoughts that the Torah terms as sins, while we are very familiar with our feelings about "too much" spirituality. After spending the entire night of Shavuos studying the Torah, did we walk home feeling elated that we were given the key to a purposeful existence, or did we feel that we fulfilled our duty and could now take a break for a while?

 

This dvar Torah was compiled by the family of the Mashgiach Harav Shlomo ben R’ Moshe z"l, l’iluy nishmaso

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Shavuos - Naso, by Rav Wolbe z"tl
Regarding Avrohom Avinu the Torah tells us, "And he
observed My safeguards, My mitzvos, My edicts and My
Torahs" (Bereishis 26, 5). Rashi explains; "And he observed
My safeguards - the Rabbinic commandments that were
established to distance one from transgressing a Torah
commandment. My Mitzvos - those things that are appropriate
to be commandments even had they not been written. My
edicts - things with which the yetzer hara and the nations
take issue such as not eating pig and not wearing shatnez.
And My Torahs - This includes the Oral Torah and those
halachos that were transmitted to Moshe at Sinai."

The Medrash comments on the above pasuk, "From
where did Avrohom learn Torah? Reb Shimon says his two
kidneys acted as two pitchers of water that gushed forth
Torah. Reb Levi says from within himself he learned the
Torah. Reb Yehonson says he even knew the [Rabbinic]
mitzvah of eiruv tavshilin." It seems that Avrohom Avinu
not only fulfilled the written Torah but also knew the
entire Oral Torah. If Avrohom already possessed the entire
Torah, why did Hashem need to arrange a Kabbalos HaTorah
for his descendants a few generations later?

Rav Wolbe (Da’as Shlomo pgs. 117, 118) answers
this question with the Ramban’s explanation of this pasuk:
"It appears to me that Avrahom Avinu learned the entire
Torah through divine prophecy and he toiled to understand
the Torah, its secrets and the reasons behind the mitzvos.
He observed the entire Torah as one who was not commanded
but nevertheless wished to comply." Avrohom’s comprehension
and subsequent fulfillment of the Torah came from the
knowledge he received through his prophecy and not because
he was so instructed via a Heavenly commandment. The
essential aspect of the "Giving of the Torah" was in order
to transform the Jewish People into a nation that would be
from then on "commanded to perform."

What is the significance of being specifically commanded
to perform the mitzvos? The Kuzari (2, 50) teaches us that
Hashem’s commanding us to perform His mitzvos is comparable
to His inviting us into His residence and dine at His
table. Rav Wolbe explains that the performance of mitzvos
can form a bond with the Creator so intimate that we should
look upon each commandment as a personal invitation - so to
speak - to enter Hashem’s abode and dine with Him. Each
commandment from Hashem manifests his special love for us.

As we approach the Yom Tov of the "Giving of the Torah" we
should be aware of the awesome present we have received. We
were given six hundred and thirteen invitations and
opportunities to connect with the Creator of the world.
Could we ask for more?


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Bamidbar

             In two different places in this week’s parsha, Rashi points out the importance of having good friends and neighbors. The Torah tells us that the Levi’im from the family of Kehos encamped on the southern side of the Mishkan. Rashi comments, "Woe unto the wicked one and woe unto his neighbor." Because the tribe of Reuven also encamped on the southern side in close proximity to Kehos, they suffered along with them. Korach, a Levi from the tribe of Kehos, drew Dasan, Avirom and two hundred and fifty others from the tribe of Reuven into his quarrel with Moshe, and they all perished as a result.

            In contrast, Rashi notes that good neighbors have a positive impact. Moshe and Aharon and his children encamped on the eastern side of the Mishkan and the tribes of Yissocher and Zevulun, who also encamped on the eastern side, only benefited from their closeness to their great neighbors. Moshe toiled in Torah and his neighbors became great Torah scholars.

            Rav Wolbe (Alei Shur vol. I pg. 32) gleans from the Rambam how to choose proper friends. The Gemara states, "He who does not study Tanach nor mishna nor is he ’bederech eretz’, is not part of society" (Kiddushin 40). The Rambam defines "bederech eretz" as being associated with "a group of good people who possess pleasantness and mussar." The Rambam specifies two conditions needed to create good camaraderie; pleasantness and mussar.

The Mishna tells us that a man must say three things in his house in preparation for Shabbos: "Did you take off the tithes? Did you prepare the eiruv? Light the candles!" The Gemara comments that they must be said in a pleasant tone so that one’s family members will accept what he has instructed them. Things said in a joking manner or in a state of anger will not be accepted, and will not create a bond of good friends.

However, this alone is not enough to ensure solid friendships. All emotional obstacles in relationships with friends stem from egotistical feelings. The desire to stand out or take control, offering unhelpful criticism and feelings of suspicion are all expressions of egoism that are abhorred in a friendship. One has to fight these negative thoughts and feelings in order to create and maintain a "good group." This is the "mussar" to which the Rambam was referring. Moreover, someone who has the merit to study in a place of Torah must take extra precautions when it comes to interaction with friends. The Gemara tells us that Rebbi Akiva had twenty four thousand disciples and they all passed away between Pesach and Shavuos because they did not honor each other properly.

One who is not particular in choosing friends and neighbors might very well suffer the consequences, while one who is careful only stands to gain!

 

This dvar Torah was compiled by the family of the Mashgiach Harav Shlomo ben R’ Moshe z"l, l’iluy nishmaso

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Parshas Behar - ON BITACHON
In this week’s Parsha, Behar, we find one of the paradigm mitzvos given to us by Hashem in order to affirm and strengthen our Bitachon--trust--the mitzvah of Shmitta.  We are incredibly commanded to let the source of our Parnassah lay fallow and open to all, and are, in turn, promised that we will be (according to the laws of nature, miraculously) sustained and actually will prosper until new crops begin to grow again in the eighth year (Vayikra 25:21).  It is important, very important, for us to realize, however, that the mitzvah of Bitachon is not related only to the Sabbatical Year that we are in--or even to the strict requirement that we not work one day a week on Shabbos Kodesh.  Rather, our Bitachon is built-up of even smaller building blocks, tangible to all on a very recurring basis.

Every day, we begin our morning prayers with the following words: “Elokai Neshama Shenasata Bi...--My Hashem, the soul You placed within me is pure.  You created it, You fashioned it, You breathed it into me, You safeguard it within me, and eventually You will take it from me, and restore it to me in Time to Come.  As long as the soul is within me, I gratefully thank You Hashem, my Hashem and the Hashem of my forefathers, Master of all works....” (Translated from The Complete Artscroll Siddur).

The thought conveyed by “Elokai Neshama” is an essential component of our Bitachon.  It is Hashem, and not us, who owns--and is in charge of--our most, most, precious possession--our very life.  Every breathing moment, every thought process, every act of communication, every Mitzvah that we perform, every step that we take, is a direct, absolute and tangible outright gift--a full and free grant from Hashem.

Is this too frightening, daunting, or even too intrusive for us to bear?  Absolutely not!  Quite to the contrary, writes the Chovos HaLevavos (at the beginning of the Sha’ar HaBitachon): “This brings Menuchas HaNefesh”--tranquility and peace of mind--to us, for we know and appreciate that there is no such thing as chance, no coincidence, no accidents of any kind, ever or at all.  There is, succinctly stated, nothing that happens--whether perceived by us as good or as bad--without Hashem’s express direction.  This, in turn, should eliminate all worry, for everything that Hashem does is out of infinite and unabated love--and for our utter, absolute, and complete benefit, as we recite in the Birchas HaMazon--She’bechal Yom V’yom Hu Haitiv, Hu Maitiv--every single day He did good, He does good, and He will do good to us....

Imagine that you had the best specialist in the world taking care of your situation--legal, medical, financial or otherwise.  When the other side won a legal argument, when the medication did not work as expected, or when the stock market went down a bit, there would be a pause for concern, perhaps some rethinking and some jitters.  Not so with Hashem, who is perfect, faultless and our eternal and omniscient Father.  This peace of mind should stay with us in all circumstances.

With this awareness, HaRav Chaim Friedlander, Z’tl, (Sifsei Chaim, Middos V’Avodas Hashem volume I, page 587) writes that we can better understand the words of the Shelah HaKadosh (on the topic “Emes V’Emuna”).  The Shelah teaches that prior to undertaking any act or item of accomplishment such as buying, selling, meeting with someone, etc. one should say “Ani Botayach BaShem--I believe in Hashem,” recognizing that the act and its outcome is totally in Hashem’s hands, and then relate it to the specific action or event in front of you.  This recognition, appreciation, and actual statement, will have the added benefit of forging a greater bond between your infinite Father and you as his son, and will help to eliminate some of the worst human character traits possible--anger at people for what they have done or not done for you; jealousy of others who were successful in doing the same thing when you were not; and haughtiness and pride over your personal ingenuity and craftiness.

Rebbe Yisroel Salanter, Z’tl, in letters to his son on Bitachon (Ohr Yisroel, Letters 24-25), additionally advises him to draw upon the words of our Tefilos, and the words of Tehillim, to inspire and develop a full faith and trust that our very being--and our every being--is in Hashem’s great Hands.  For example, we recite in Pesukei D’Zimra, “Ashrei SheKel Yaakov B’Ezro”--Praiseworthy is one whose hope is in Hashem--He is the Maker of Heaven and Earth, the sea and all that is in them, He safeguards truth forever….  In fact, once you take note, you will find that Pesukim relating to Bitachon abound--“Kavei El Hashem…” (Tehillim 27:14); “Einai Tomid El Hashem…” (Tehillim 25:15)....

Bitachon is such a crucial aspect of our existence.  We must take the time out to recite Elokai Neshama with Kavannah every morning, to be fluent with a few Pesukim (from our davening or otherwise) relating to Bitachon which should calm us and put the actions and events of our life in Torah perspective, and follow the advice of the Shelah HaKadosh--start by saying the words “Ani Boteach Ba’Shem” in the everyday and the not-so everyday circumstances and occurrences that we face or that come our way--no--that Hashem brings our way!!

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Parshas Kedoshim
In this week’s Parsha of Kedoshim, we find the great Mitzvah of “Mipnei Sayva Takum…” (Vayikra 19:32)--In the presence of an elderly person shall you rise, and you shall honor the presence of a Sage....

The Shulchan Aruch (Yoreh Deah 244) rules that one must rise if a person over the age of 70 (even if unlearned, but provided he/she is not wicked) enters within your 4 amos (i.e., within 6-8 feet of you).  One should remain standing until he/she has passed from in front of you.  Respect does not only consist of rising, but also includes respectful words and a helping hand (ibid. 244:7).  Let us take a moment to reflect upon our diligence in the performance of this Mitzvah as it may apply in our own homes, in the homes of friends and relatives, in Shul, in doctor’s offices, and in the various situations that may present themselves to us throughout the day.  Let us also thank Hashem for giving us the opportunity to be in their presence (and having the opportunity to learn from them, if applicable)--and making it a Mitzvah on top of that!

Additional Note:  Some opinions hold that the minimum age to which respect must be accorded is actually 60 and not 70.


Special Note Two: In this week’s Parsha, we also find the immense Mitzvah of “V’Ahavta L’Rayacha Komocha” (Vayikra 19:18)--you shall love your fellow as yourself.  The scope and breadth of this “K’lal Gadol B’Torah--great principle of the Torah” (Shabbos 31A) includes the following situations which are listed in, or based upon, the teachings of Love Your Neighbor (by Rabbi Zelig Pliskin, Shlita, the wonderful work referred to yesterday).  The Mitzvah is fulfilled when:
1.      A craftsman or worker is mindful that he is making a product, or performing a service, not merely for a source of income, but also for the benefit or pleasure of the person who will use it;
2.      Teaching another person Torah;
3.      Forgiving one who has hurt or offended you;
4.      Helping someone by making change for a larger bill or coin, or giving them a quarter for the parking meter;
5.      Going out of your way not to keep people waiting--trying to be the first one present on a conference call or for a meeting;
6.      Intentionally steering clear of annoying others--such as not slamming doors, making screeching noises with your nails, or doing something to which another person present would respond with “Uch”! or “How could you do that?!”  Note here that the “L’Rayacha Komocha” is dependent on the person who is present, and is not the standard of the average person.  You must specifically relate to the person who is with you;
7.      Bringing good news or happiness to others;
8.      Getting some air or taking a walk with someone who appears troubled or is clearly in need of talking;
9.      Complimenting someone for their job, effort, or appearance; and
10.     Giving Tzedakah to someone, or helping someone with something he needs help with, **BEFORE** being asked.
Two additional notes on “V’Ahavta L’Rayacha Komocha”:

a.      A Holocaust Survivor (Mr. Landau from Hungary) relates how he and hundreds of others were on a train bound for Auschwitz towards the end of the war.  The train stopped abruptly when Allied bombs started to fall around it, and everyone was ordered to disembark and take cover.  A Nazi supply train stopped at the same location as well, and the enemy soldiers scattered for cover.  The bombing stopped and the prisoners were ordered back on the train.  In the upheaval, Mr. Landau found a crate of sardines on the supply train and brought it back with him to the Auschwitz transport.  As all the prisoners alighted back onto the train, he handed them each a can of sardines which the hungry captives began to eat with zeal.  The Nazi soldiers came back on the train and noticed many Jews eating the sardines.  They asked the prisoners who had given them the cans, and no one replied.  The soldiers surprisingly left the train, and Mr. Landau’s life was spared--because instead of hiding the cans for himself, he had shared them with as many people as he could.  Chazal (Vayikra Rabbah 34) teach that “more than the wealthy person does for the poor person, the poor does for the wealthy”.  This last story is a similar indication of how the proper fulfillment of loving another as yourself did more for Mr. Landau than it did for the others on the train--for it actually saved his life.
 
b.      The following is brought in Growth Through Torah (p. 282):

Rabbi Chaim Koldetzky related to his family how he was once a guest at the home of the Chofetz Chaim.  The Chofetz Chaim personally made the bed for him and prepared his pillow and blankets.  Rabbi Koldetzky was startled to see that after preparing the bed, the Chofetz Chaim laid down on the bed for a few seconds to make sure it was sufficiently comfortable for his guest!

As we go through the day with the various acts of Chesed we perform for acquaintances, friends, and family, let us remember to take the extra step(s) necessary to elevate the level of our Mitzvah to a degree that Mr. Landau, or even the Chofetz Chaim, would be proud of!

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THE LIGHT OF MUSSAR

Concerning our relationship to our parents, the Torah instructs us: Every man shall revere his mother and his father.

 

The Talmud asks: "What is implied in the term 'reverence' for one's parents?  One should not sit in his father's seat, nor speak in his stead, nor contradict his words."

 

The subject of this verse is the Mitzvah to revere one's parents. Yet when the Talmud explains this concept, it does not talk about reverence at all! Rather it defines specific actions and deeds. Why did the Talmud not elaborate on the reverencethat we are required to have for our parents? 

 

The Talmud is teaching us one of the fundamental principles of the Torah. The basic format of all Mitzvos requires action. Even the Mitzvos of the heart-like belief in and love of Hashem-must be actualized in order to be fulfilled.

 

Hence, the Rabbis ask: "What is implied in the term 'reverence of parents'?  Meaning-what are the specific actions that actualize 'reverence of parents' into a concrete reality? Only when the reverence is translated into deed is the Mitzvah fulfilled!

 

Likewise, when someone asked Hillel to teach him the whole Torah on one foot, Hillel responded, "That which is hateful to you, do not do unto others." Instead of teaching him the Mitzvah to "Love your friend as you love yourself", Hillel taught him the actions that stem from that Mitzvah. Only when the love gives birth to specific actions is the Mitzvah of loving another person fulfilled.

 

May Hashem help us develop the proper feelings within our hearts, and may we express them though concrete and appropriate deeds.

 

[Based on Da'as Torah of Rabenu Yerucham HaLevi]

 

TODAY: Perform a kind deed for your parents or someone close to you.

 

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METZORA
The entire subject of tzoraat is shrouded in mystery and wonderment. The exact nature of the disease is not really known to our medical practitioners.

The traditional translation of tzoraat as leprosy is undoubtedly misleading and inaccurate. The rabbis of the Talmud treated this disease as mainly a spiritual one, albeit reflected in actual physical symptoms. Slander, narrowness of vision, jealousy of others and bad character traits were assigned by the rabbis as being some of the potential causes of the onset of the disease.

Since tzoraat could occur not only on one’s body but on one’s clothing and in the walls of one’s house, it made everyone vulnerable- stripped bare of the veneer of possessions and false appearances that characterize human life. They are exposed publicly as being people of poor character, greedy, self-centered and even malicious towards others.

In the haftorah of the week we read of the four metzoraim – Gechazy and his three sons – who were cursed by Elisha for their greed and for the desecration of God’s name when Gechazy pursued Naaman, the Aramean general, and asked for the wealth that Elisha had refused to accept.

Even in the moment of triumph when they discovered the encampment of their enemy to be deserted and abandoned, they could not restrain their impulse of greed and proceeded to loot the camp before reporting their discovery to the king of Israel.

Apparently it is easier to cure tzoraat itself than it is to remove the character flaws that brought about the tzoraat in the first instance.

Since tzoraat was a disease of character traits and flaws, it is natural that the Torah placed the responsibility of diagnosing and curing the disease, not upon doctors or healers, but rather on the kohein – the priest of Israel.

The kohein was to be the spiritual mentor and guide for Jews. The prophet proclaimed: “For the lips of the kohein shall guard knowledge and wisdom and people shall seek to learn Torah from him for he is likened unto an angel of God.”

The kohein was the sole healer of these hidden character weaknesses that lay deep within a person’s soul and personality. Apparently with the decline of the spiritual strength of the kohanim in Second Temple times, the disease of tzoraat also disappeared.

We have no record of its actual appearance in Second Temple times, though the rules of purification enumerated in this week’s parsha were continued to be studied and appear as a separate mesechet in the Mishna.

The rabbis always spoke of tzoraat as something that required study and analysis – drosh (to search and analyze.) If one actually did that and underwent the searing self-analysis that is required to uproot the possibility of tzoraat in one’s person then in the words of the rabbis “vkabel sachar - one will be rewarded and receive payment.”

That lesson remains valid for all times and under all circumstances. We no longer have any kohein capable of discerning tzoraat nor do we actually have tzoraat itself in our midst. But, the root causes of tzoraat still exist abundantly within us and our society.

Before the coming of the great Pesach holiday let us attempt to purify ourselves from those negative causes and traits.

Shabat shalom.

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Tazria

The Ramban in this week’s parsha (Vayikra 13, 47) writes that tzara’as was in no way a natural phenomenon.  Rather, it occurred when Bnei Yisroel maintained a high spiritual level and cleaved to Hashem. Hashem reciprocated and rested His Spirit on them, thereby giving them and their belongings a superior appearance. Should it happen that one of Bnei Yisroel would sin, an unsightly spot would appear on their skin, clothing, or house to show that Hashem had removed His Spirit from that person. Rav Wolbe explains that it was because they were so great that they merited to be punished with tzora’as. In an immediate response to a person haven spoken lashon hara he would become a metzorah, as if Hashem Himself was talking with the transgressor and showing His displeasure.

                Rav Wolbe continues that this is the concept of Hashgachas Hashem which is a fundamental principle of the entire Torah. Beginning with Yetzias Mitzrayim Hashem revealed this concept for He wished to teach Paroh, “That I am Hashem in the midst of the Earth.” Yetzias Mitzrayim was not merely a lesson in emuna, but also taught Paroh and the Bnei Yisroel that there is Divine Providence. This is the reason that our Sages tell us that every person is obligated to feel as if he left Mitzrayim. Why is it necessary that we feel as if we left Egypt? The answer is that if we can relate so strongly to Yetzias Mitzrayim, we will also feel the Hashgacha Pratis that came along with the exodus. This is the rationale behind the Seder and the text of the haggadah. We must go through the motions of eating bitter herbs to feel and somewhat experience the bitterness of the slavery, and drink four cups of wine, recline, and sing Hallel to experience the redemption. We state, “Our forefathers were idol worshipers and now Hashem brought us into His service.” Right now, on the Seder night, we are to feel the incredible Hashgacha Pratis as if Hashem is taking each one of us by the hand and bringing us into His service: “Come my child and serve Hashem by performing the mitzvos, for this is the purpose of your life!”

                How are we to relate to this concept of Hashgacha Pratis? In theory everyone understands such an idea, but for many, it never leaves the world of theory into their hearts and into practice. The Mashgiach writes that he found a way to become conscious of Hashgacha Pratis. In the beginning of Parshas Shemini, Rashi writes that Aharon was embarrassed to serve in the Mishkan. Moshe then told him that there is no reason to be embarrassed because, “It was for this position that you were chosen.” What was Moshe’s response? The reason why Aharon was embarrassed was exactly because he felt that he was not fit for the position? It must be that when Hashem chooses a person for a position, it is in essence an act of creation. He is being created to fit the post and if one was so created, there is no reason to be embarrassed.

                This is a lesson for us to inculcate into our lives. Often a person compares himself to the people around him. “If I would have the qualities that the next one has, I would be able to perform more efficiently than I do now” (while completely oblivious to the numerous negative traits that plague his friend). Some even wish that they weren’t so talented because then less would be demanded of them. The key to freeing one’s self from these feelings is to truly understand this idea of, “It was for this position that you were chosen.” The secret to one’s life; to his qualities and his essence, is Hashgacha Pratis. It was Hashem who placed him in the position that he is in and therefore, there is no reason to compare himself to the people around him. There is no reason to be embarrassed nor is there place for the question, “Why him and not me.”

                This is a practical way to implement the concept of Hashgacha Pratis into our lives on a daily basis. Additionally, it is well worth taking a few moments on the Seder night to think about this concept, since this time is most auspicious to feeling Hashem’s hand in our lives.

 

 

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THE LIGHT OF MUSSAR\TAZRIAH

The Roman Emperor Turnus Rufus, asked Rabbi Akiva, "If HaShem wanted man to be circumcised, why didn't He create man already in that form?" Rabbi Akiva answered that the act of circumcision renders a spiritual rectification.

 

However, Rabbi Akiva's answer needs a clarification. If HaShem wants man to be without a spiritual flaw, why didn't he just create him in a state of spiritual perfection? Moreover, how does a physical act, i.e., the circumcision, render a spiritual rectification?

 

Adam, the first man, was created in a perfect spiritual state as well as in a perfect physical stature, i.e., he came into existence already circumcised. However, after Adam and Chavah ate the forbidden fruit, an impure spirit descended upon them, and all of their offspring.

 

In addition, after he ate the forbidden fruit, his sons that were subsequently born, were born uncircumcised. This physical imperfection holds a great spiritual impurity.

 

This sheds light on Rabbi Akiva's assertion that the circumcision renders purification. After Adam brought imperfection upon himself and mankind, HaShem mercifully provided a healing path. By performing the Mitzvah of circumcision, man removes the physical imperfection and rectifies his spirit.

 

In His great love and compassion, HaShem gave us the Mitzvoth to heal our souls and rectify all of our impurities. Observance of the Torah prohibitions heals the spirit, and the performance of the positive Mitzvoth illuminates the soul.

 

May our compliance with each Torah injunction purge our spirit and restore the splendor of our soul.

[Based on the Ohr HaChaim HaKodesh]

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THE LIGHT OF MUSSAR\PIKUDIE
Order and organization are vital components of spirituality. For instance, regarding the formation of the Tabernacle and its vessels, Moshe instructed Betzallel to first make the vessels and afterwards to make the Tabernacle. Betzallel asked Moshe, “The common practice is to first build the house and afterwards bring in the furnishings. If I make the vessels before the Tabernacle is constructed, where will I place the vessels?” Moshe agreed, “You must have heard it from HaShem, because the order that you suggested is exactly the order that HaShem told me, i.e. first the Tabernacle and afterwards the vessels.” Therefore, Moshe corrected himself and told Betzallel to first make the Tabernacle and afterwards the vessels. Every Mitzvah is given with exact parameters and order. If someone keeps Shabbos on Tuesday, it is not counted as Shabbos observance. However, concerning the formation of the Tabernacle and its vessels, what difference does it make if one item is made before the other? In the end, won’t all the necessary parts and pieces be available for the formation of the Tabernacle? The order of the making the Tabernacle and its vessels is a primary factor in the act of building the Tabernacle. If it were built out of the prescribed order, the quality and quantity of holiness would be significantly diminished. HaShem keeps the world in perfect order, i.e., the sunrises every morning and sets in the evening at the precise time, the seasons follow their yearly cycle, the oceans stay within their boundaries, etc. So too, by arranging order to our days, we will sanctify and add tranquility to our lives. May we perform the Mitzvoth in their proper time and place. In turn, HaShem will bless us with holiness, happiness, and peace. [Based on Da’as Torah of Rav Yerucham HaLevi]
 
TODAY: Take a moment to organize your day.
 
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Ki Sisa
Adam Harishone was a being created with an awesome spiritual stature. Our Sages tell us that his height reached the heavens and he was able to see from one end of the world to the other. However, he sinned and his stature was diminished greatly. Nevertheless, Hashem never desists from trying to bring Bnei Yisroel to this original spiritual level. After a long journey beginning with Avraham Avinu and culminating with the acceptance of the Torah at Har Sinai, Bnei Yisroel finally retrieved this long lost and greatly yearned for spiritual level. Yet, merely a few days later they lost it once again when they worshipped the golden calf. From the time the second luchos were given, the purpose of the Torah has been to allow Bnei Yisroel to regain the greatness with which man was created.

It is for this reason, writes Rav Wolbe (Alei Shur vol. II pgs. 20, 21) that he placed "man" (rather than the Torah)
at the focal point of his sefer, It is towards his perfection that man must strive, a goal that would allow him to reclaim his tremendous stature.

Rav Wolbe continues that one would be mistaken to think that by a perfunctory performance of the mitzvos he will
automatically become an "adam hashaleim." We must always bear in mind one of the golden rules of avodas Hashem: Any aspect of spiritual perfection that one does not apply himself towards achieving will not be achieved. Although every mitzvah performed garners reward, if one did not work on reaching shleimus, he will certainly be lacking in this world and the next.

Since the perfection of man is the focal point of the Torah in general, and Alei Shur in particular, we must first define what exactly is the perfect "man." Yechezkel was the only prophet to whom Hashem constantly referred as
"ben adam" (the son of man). Rashi offers two possibilities for this interesting appellation: "Because he had visualized Hashem's "chariot" and walked amongst the Heavenly beings like one of the angels, he was referred to
as the "son of man." In other words, there is no human being there [in heaven] except him. Alternatively, he was
so called lest he become arrogant because he was familiar with Hashem's chariot and the celestial beings."

These two explanations are both accurate descriptions of what a man is. Every person contains both of these
extremes; the ability to reach the greatest heights of the heavens, and the humbleness rooted in his origin i.e. his
creation from a clod of earth. This is the greatness of man. It is within his reach to attain awesome spiritual
heights, and the greater the attainment, the greater the humility. Moshe Rabbeinu, the greatest prophet that ever
lived, was also the humblest person ever to walk this earth. One's tremendous hasagos should work together with one's middos, allowing him to remain humble despite his achievements. It is towards this perfection that Bnei
Yisroel should strive.

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Tetzaveh
"Darkness descends and it is night" - This refers to olam hazeh which is comparable to the night" (Baba Metzia 83b). The Mesillas Yesharim elucidates this interesting analogy in a brilliant manner. Darkness causes two distinct problems: it either completely hinders one's ability to see any given object, or it causes one to falsely perceive an object e.g. he thinks a person is merely a pillar. Similarly, this physical, materialistic world does not allow one to distinguish the pitfalls that are inherent in life. Moreover, it fools one into perceiving the good as bad and the bad as truly good. Rav Wolbe writes (Alei Shur vol. II pg. 86) that this is where the Torah steps in. The Torah is the light that clarifies all confusion, thereby guiding the Jewish people through the darkness of olam hazeh. It is the tool that has the ability to enlighten us in every situation, be it with regard to the world in general or our particular bodies.

The Medrash tells us: "Hashem said, 'From all the nations that were created, I love only Yisrael… From all that was created I love only justice - as it is written, "For I am Hashem who loves justice (mishpat)". I will give what I loved to the nation that I love'." What is this 'mishpat' that is so dear to the Creator? The pasuk in this week's parsha commands Bnei Yisroel, "And you shall make a 'choshen mishpat' (breastplate)" (Shemos 28, 15).

Rashi explains that it was called mishpat because it clarified its words, similar to the concept of justice.
This is the purpose of the laws in the Torah: to clarify every situation and interaction with one's fellow man,
leaving no room for doubt.

The Gemara (Pesachim 50a) relates that R' Yosef the son of R' Yehoshua ben Levi became ill and his soul took leave of his body. When he "returned" from the world above, his father asked him what he had seen. "I saw
an inverted world" he answered. "Those that are high in this world are low in the next world, while those that are
low in this world are high in the next world!" His father responded, "My son, you have seen a world of clarity"
(undistorted by the biased appraisals of human beings).  "Where do we [who study the Torah] stand in the next
world?" his father inquired. "Exactly where we stand in this world is where we stand in the next world. Additionally I heard them say, 'Praiseworthy is he who comes to this world with his Torah in hand.'"

The Next World is the world of true clarity. Nevertheless, those who study the Torah and are guided by its light, live with a similar clarity even in this world.  They are respected in the Next World exactly as they respect one another here in this world. Their Torah has created for them a world of clarity even during their lifetime.

Additionally, R' Yosef heard the way one arrives at this world of clarity. "Praiseworthy is he who comes with his Torah in hand." A person must not merely know what the Torah asks of him, but he most also translate this knowledge into actions. There is no new situation or invention that has arisen or will emerge, that cannot be
clarified halachicaly by the statutes of the Torah. This is the clarity we must strive for in this world, which will in
turn assure us a similar clarity in the World-to-Come.

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Parashas Terumah

"And they shall make for Me a mishkan and I will dwell amongst them" (Shemos 25, 8). Our Sages explain that the commandment to build a mishkan was not merely given to the general public, but also to each and every individual. Each person should conduct himself in a way that befits the Shechina and Hashem will dwell inside the person himself.

How can we effect that Hashem will bring His Shechina down into this materialistic world, not to mention into the physical body of a human being? Rav Wolbe (Da'as Shlomo 313) enlightens us with a Medrash that tells us that the greatest prophet of all times asked this very question. Hashem commanded Moshe to build the mishkan to parallel the heavenly visions that he perceived during his stay on Har Sinai. The Medrash compares their dialogue to that of a human king and his servant. The king, who has a strikingly handsome countenance, instructs his servant to draw his liking for all to see. "How could I possibly encompass all his majesty's glory and beauty in a mere painting?" asks the servant. To which the king responds, "You do as much as you can with your paint, and my complete glory and honor will be portrayed by my body itself". Similarly, Moshe asked Hashem, "Am I G-d that I have the ability to create something that corresponds to the Heavenly bodies?" To which Hashem answered, "You recreate their form with linen, wool, and red dyed materials and I will leave my ministers up in Heaven and bring My Shechina down to Earth amongst you."

It was self understood by Chazal that if Hashem would place His Shechina down here in this world, it would have to be in an environment that parallels His world up above - and this was Moshe's difficulty. How could a human being possibly reconstruct a dwelling place that rivals the Heavenly palace created by the Creator Himself? However, the answer was short and simple: You do yours and I will do Mine. The Medrash tells us that the wooden beams and golden braces resembled the angels and stars. Although the likeness was minute, there was enough of a resemblance for Hashem to consent to dwell amongst us. Bnei Yisroel merely needed to lay the groundwork and Hashem would fill in the rest of the picture.

The Chinuch asks why we must perform the many commandments whose purpose is for us to identify with yetzias Mitzrayim. Wouldn't it be enough if we would take some time to contemplate this awesome occurrence and thereby ingrain it in our minds and hearts? He answers that a person is influenced primarily by his deeds rather than by his thoughts. One who physically performs the many mitzvos of the Torah will automatically change for the better. Each and every deed affects him and therefore, the Torah gave us many mitzvos to help us in our path to perfection. Why is it that one's heart is drawn after his actions and not after his thoughts? This can be explained with the above concept.  Once we do the required actions that lay the groundwork for Hashem to reside in our hearts, Hashem responds by helping us reach the goals that we seek. All the mitzvos of the Torah in general, and the building of the mishkan and its utensils in particular, parallel awesome things in the Higher World. However, all we are asked to do is to perform the mitzvos as instructed. The deed itself is the way to bring Hashem's Shechina into our lives.  

One who wishes to improve his davening should first work on the physical aspects involved. He shouldn't sit in a slouched manner or with one leg lying on the other. He should stand with a proper demeanor and enunciate the words carefully. He will soon find that his davening has taken on an altogether new appearance. The same holds true for all mitzvos.

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Mishpatim

"And these are the laws that you shall place before them" (Shemos 21, 1). Rashi asks why the Torah felt it pertinent to enumerate the many halachos of parshas Mishpatim right after the commandment regarding the building of the mizbeiach. He answers that we are to infer from the juxtaposition that the Sanhedrin (high court) should be situated right next to the mizbeiach i.e. in the Beis Hamikdosh.

Rav Wolbe (Shiurei Chumash Parshas Mishpatim) notes that in every court of law, the seal of its country is displayed prominently. The reason is that the court judges with the backing of their ruler or in accordance with the laws of the country. In a similar vein, the laws of the Torah are the symbol of Hashem's Kingship. Yet, "The laws of Hashem are true, altogether righteous" (Tehillim 19, 10). There is no legal system in the world that pretends that all its laws are true and completely objective. Rather, they are merely a group of guidelines that were laid down by agreement of the general populace in accordance with their needs. However, the laws of the Torah did not originate from our own mutual agreement; they are Hashem's commandments, and therefore absolute truth. The Sanhedrin is located in the "house of Hashem" because they represent His laws – laws that are true in the purest sense of the word. It is for this reason that one who goes to a gentile court of law instead of a Jewish court has desecrated Hashem's name. As Rashi tells us, "And these are the laws that you shall place before them" - and not before the courts of gentiles. Even if one knows that the gentiles rule similarly on a specific matter, he who brings his case before the court of gentiles has desecrated the Name of Hashem.

The Mashgiach asserts that there is yet another reason why the Sanhedrin was situated next to the mizbeiach. It is not possible to separate one's avodas Hashem (represented by the sacrifices offered on the altar) from the way he acts between himself and his fellow man (represented by the Sanhedrin). For one to be meticulous in his observance of the mitzvos between man and Hashem, while derelict in his observance of the mitzvos between man and his fellow man, is antithetical to the Torah way of life.

 Rav Yisroel Salanter zt"l, the famed founder of the Mussar Movement, passed away during the week that parshas Mishpatim is read. The ba'alei mussar stated that it was because he spent his life trying to restore the laws dealing with man and his fellow man to their appropriate status, that he merited passing away during the time in which we read the portion of the Torah that deals with these very laws. One of the most basic foundations of mussar is that one should be meticulous with the laws of Choshen Mishpat (monetary matters) as he is with the laws of Orach Chaim (daily living i.e. mitzvos bein adom lamakom). Are we as careful in our dealings with our fellow man as we are in our dealings with Hashem?


This dvar Torah was compiled by the family of the Mashgiach l'iluy nishmas the Mashgiach Harav Shlomo ben R' Moshe z"l.




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BESHALACH

After the Egyptians freed B'nei Yisrael from bondage, they regretted giving up their slaves and pursued after them. Yet, in light of the ten awesome plagues they had already endured, why did the Egyptians think they could successfully recapture the Nation of Israel? Wouldn't HaShem rescue His people?

 

The Egyptians erroneously assumed that the power of HaShem is restricted to acts of destruction, as demonstrated by the plagues. That is, they thought the He destroys but does not perform acts of deliverance. Therefore, they reasoned that if they attack Israel, HaShem could not save them.  

 

As flawed as this thinking is, it reflects a common



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