- Q. Dear Rov a number of questions for a Shadchan. Can he look at a proposed woman he wants to offer for a shiduch?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that although the mitzva of helping someone to find a right partner and get married is one of the greatest acts of Chessed and doing good for others, it can and should be shared with others when it is needed.
I this case, the Rov Shlit’a sugested that Shadchan should work together with his wife or other woman he can share with as his mother or sister. The above would greatly increase the chances of acomplishing a far better shiduch.
Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by, Horav Yaakov Hirschman, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller, Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu and Horav Kalman Ochs Shlit’a
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