Please Say/Whisper the Words out Loud In merit of this learning may
Yaakov ben Rachel and Elisheva Tziporah bat Chana each be blessed with
an immediate refuah shleima bitoch she'ar cholei yisrael!
I The key to controlling destructive speech is to develop the ability to judge people to the good.
II We
can't judge another person unless we have arrived at their place. It
follows that since we can never be in exactly the same place and life
circumstance as another person, we are never allowed to judge anyone.
(This does not mean we have to accept everything and every action)