Please Say/Whisper the Words out Loud In merit of this learning may Yael Rivka Esther bat Aliza Tzemach and Miriam Hencha bat Nechama Leah each merit their zivug hagun v’nachon, at the right time with clarity and with joy. may it be and eternal home, with a strong foundation of Torah and Mitzvot.
I Revealing that someone lost their temper is considered degradation as we are speaking negatively about someone elses actions/traits. We need to be really careful to avoid this, even if it is said as a "by the way".
II - example You called your neighbor to ask hr if your son could be dropped off at her house after school and she agreed. Later you call to say "Sarah, I called the school in the morning to make the bus change. Oh, you should have heard how the secretary yelled at me for bothering her."
(Lessons taken from Purity of Speech by C.T. Friedman and Hilchot Lashon Hora)