Please Say/Whisper the Words out Loud
In merit of this learning may Pinchas ben Nurit and Shira Shayna bat Bracha Chaya each be blessed with an immediate refuah shleima bitoch shaar cholei yisrael.
I
As we learned, one primary area of negative speech we need to be careful to avoid is degradation, specifically when it comes to speaking about peoples bad character traits. This applies even if we justify the reasons for the trait.
II - examples
"My brother became very lazy since his Yeshiva is so lenient regarding coming on time to classes"
"My grandmother was a very nervous mother since she experienced many hardships in her life"
(Lessons taken from Purity of Speech by C.T. Friedman and Hilchot Lashon Hara by the Chafetz Chaim)
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