Please Say/Whisper the Words out Loud In merit of this learning may Yenta bat Gittel and Julie bat Marilyn each be blessed with an immediate refuah shleima bitoch shaar cholei yisrael.
Friday - 26 Cheshvan Even when we are upset or grieving or in any other extreme emotional state, we need to be careful of what we say, be aware of who is listening to our words, hear not only what is said but what is implied, and make sure that our deeds donít leave an opening for someone to speak negatively about us even in the distant future.
Shabbat - 27 Cheshvan Just as we are not allowed to reveal that someone did something wrong or sinned, so too we are not allowed to discuss someones bad character traits such as a strong temper, lazy nature, stinginess etc.
(Lessons taken from Finding the Right Words by Rosally Saltsman and Purity of Speech by C.T. Friedman)
Create a wonderful beautiful and holy shabbat! - Ora