Please Say/Whisper the Words out Loud In merit of this learning may Rachel bat Masuda be blessed with an immediate refuah shleima bitcoh shaar cholei yisrael!
I A
common pessimistic statement is the one that sometimes greets newly
engaged couples: "You know, after all the excitement dies down,
marriage is just a lot of hard work".
II Rather than
deflating a couple’s exhilaration, one could let them enjoy their
happiness. The best response to someone else’s announcement is just
plain "Mazal Tov, may you have a lot of success!"
(Lessons taken from Positive Word Power by Rabbi Zelig Pliskin)