Please Say/Whisper the Words out Loud Mazal tov Masha bat Ella!
May you be zoche to build an eternal home, with a strong foundation of
Torah and Mitzvot. May you and your chatan be blessed with health,
happiness, and only revealed good!
I Since every person is
made up of a plethora of positive and negative traits, someone making
an unfavorable comparison is basically ignoring all the victim’s
positive traits and zeroing in on only the negative to conclude that
the victim is inferior to someone else.
II If we were
looking at the whole person, we would see that while one person has
certain strengths, the other person has other strengths.
(Lessons taken from Positive Word Power by Rabbi Zelig
Pliskin)