Please Say/Whisper the Words out Loud In merit of this learning may Yeshayahu ben Miriam be blessed with an immediate refuah shleima!
Friday - 15 Elul Timing is a major factor in communication. When you try to discuss an issue of major importance with a person when s/he is angry/tired/hungry/upset/worried, you have a good chance of not being listened to.
Shabbat - 16 Elul When you try to outtalk someone who feels an intense need to explain their position to you, you also have a good chance of not being listened to. And when you are so upset you cannot control your speech, you stand an excellent chance of not being listened to. What does this add up to? Get your timing right! :)