Contrary to popular opinion, marriage is work, and work is good. We came to this world to perfect our character traits, and there is no other relationship more so than marriage to help you do that! It doesn't mean (G-d forbid) that you're married to the wrong person if you have issues or conflicts. It's only through challenge that we grow and perfect ourselves.
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These Shalom Bayit Thoughts are geared for the average couple, who has typical issues that are not "off the chart." If you are in a situation involving mental illness or abuse, please seek professional help.