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											#5109    Stop, Look and Listen?
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												 - Q.  See question above. If I continued davening the amida, do I have to look for someone to blow for me after davening. After all I did hear it? 
 
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											#5108 – Stop and Listen?
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												   -  Q. Kvod Horav Shlit”a. It happens because of my medical situation that I come late to shul. Sometimes in the past I have had to listen to the shofar blowing at the end of davening during Elul, while I’m still saying the amidah Do I have to stop ....
											
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											#5107 – Shofar Not So Good?
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 -  Q.  Rabino querido. You know my parents well, and following their advice, that is based on what you taught them many years ago to care for others and do mitzvot for their benefit.  
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											#5106    Refer the Sefer
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    -  Q.  Can you make a siyum for a Yohrzait of parents when you finish learning an important sefer, such as Mesilas Yeshorim or similar? 
 
A.  Usually the common Siyum is on a Talmud volume, a Mishna sefer, or a book of Tanach.  ....
											
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											#5105   A True Historic Day
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												  -  Q. I heard in our Beis Hamedrash that the 24th day of Av is a special day and therefore Tachanun should be avoided. Why is that day so special? 
 
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											#5104    Allow the Blow?
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												 -  Q. If we are starting a new minyan, should we blow the shofar from the first day Rosh Chodesh Elul? The minhag in this part of town is split. 
 
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											#5103     Not the Last Stand
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												 -  Q. Dear Rabbi; does someone who is already a bit aged and it is a bit difficult for him to have to stand for all the selichos, when everyone else in shul is standing, (they are younger). Should he better look for another minyan, so he will not be ....
											
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											#5102     For a Split Second
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												? -  Q. See question above. If we cannot reach an agreement, for this and other different minhagim, is it better that we should split and the new comers even if they are now a majority, should look for a new place? 
  
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											#5101    Divide and Loose
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												  -  Q.  We recently added a number of new members to our Beis Midrash and some have a very Chassidic background. Their leader mentioned that since Rosh Hashana is approaching and we are going to say and add many different tefilos, we should follow t ....
											
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											#5100 – Shofar So Good
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												  -  Q.   See questions above. We were further wondering, if from the friends camping with us the only one that knows how to blow the shofar (more or less) is my talented son. The problem is that he is only twelve years old. Can he blow on this speci ....
											
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											#5099 – Hazoom Es Hakol?
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												 -  Q. See question above. In our special situation, can we maybe just zoom a blowing of the shofar, since after all it is only for a remembrance act? 
 
A.  Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit”a usual opinion is that any mitzva that involves verba ....
											
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											#5098    Blow the Blow?
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												 -  Q.  Dear Rabbi. We are still traveling with our family and friends camping by the lake on our summer vacation trip. Be’H we plan to be back at the middle of next week. Since we Bechesed Hashem actually have a daily minyan and B’H we have davened  ....
											
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											#5097    Words of Honor
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  –   Q. See question above. Can one celebrate a Siyum on that day or should preferably postpone it. 
 
A. Shulchan Aruch O.H.  (580: 2) enumerates a list of days that were identified as days of mourning due to tragedies and d ....
											
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											#5096    The Pogrom Program 
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												 -  Q. Rabenu Shlit’a. Is the 17th of Av a day for mourning? 
 
A. The Hebron Massacre occurred on  August 24, 2029. Sixty-seven Jewish men, women and children were slaughtered, and scores wounded, raped and maimed, by their Arab neighbors  ....
											
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											#5095   Prepared Properly for  Party
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												 -  Q.  A Bride that has a family tradition on the day of her wedding to daven a special long mincha before entering the Chupa, if she thinks she will be too busy and engaged in the las minute details before the chupa and she may not be able to daven ....
											
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											#5094    Dance at the Right Wedding!
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												  Q.  Kvod Horav Shli”a. Should one choose when possible to get married on Tu Beav? Is there a special meaning and importance on getting married then? 
 
A.  Zohar (2 p. 195) mentions that Tu Beav is a day of Simcha and joy due to the Ilui  ....
											
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											#5093 - Marry Up?
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												  -  Q. Is there an inyan (reason) of making a seuda on Tu Beav for women that are looking for a Shiduch. Our a bit modern shul would like to organize one, if yes how should it be done? 
  
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											#5092   Have an Early Night?
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												   -   Q. See question above. Does the same apply for one who davens Maariv after plag. If he learns after davening Maariv is that considered as learning at night? 
 
A. Horav Yaakov Hirschman Shlit’a is  hat even after plag it is technical ....
											
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											#5091   Call It a Day?
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												   - Q. See question above.  Dear Rov, I asked the same  question above also to other Rabbis and they stressed more the importance of learning Torah at night, even in my stressful condition. Are they really wrong? 
 
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											#5090    Have a Good Night
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												  -  Q. I wonder if I have the opportunity to learn before davening in the morning, or to do it by attending a shiur at night when I’m already a bit tired, which is preferable? 
 
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