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											# 4508   Great Greatly Great Gut Guitar
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												   Q.   If someone bought a new expensive great guitar, he uses for playing during simches, does he recite Shecheyanu or Hatov Vehameitiv? 
 
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											# 4507   Partial B’ahav Love?
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												  Q.  See question above. Is there value to fasting until chatzos on B’ahav and or diminishing food in ones meals? 
  
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											# 4506      B’ahava to B’ahav?
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												    Q.  See question above. Is there value to fasting until chatzos on Bahav and or diminishing food in ones meals?  
 
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											# 4505     Have the B’ahav   
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												    Q.  What is the meaning and source for some congregations and people keeping a fast day or reciting Selichos during ‘Bahav.’ firstly,  what does ‘Bahav’ mean? 
 
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											# 4505     Peace With the pizza 
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												     Q. What bracha should be said on pizza? Does it matter what kind of pihe Pizza it is or how much one eats? What does Horav Miller recommend? 
 
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											# 4504   Scratching  About Scraching
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												      Q.  Horav Kalman Ochs Shli’ta wrote regarding two of the following shailos last week. 
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											# 4503   The Best of all Months 
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												     Q. My family is planing to erect the Matzeiva of our grandfather A’H who died during the month of Cheshvan, in the near future. 
 
 What is most correct when writing the date; to name the month as Cheshvan or MarCheshvan? 
 
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											# 4502  In Peace With the Pizza 
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   Q. What bracha should be said on pizza? Does it matter what kind of pizza it is or how much one eats? What does Horav Miller recommend? 
 
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											# 4501-   Love Not Lost 
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												   Q.  Dear Rabbi. Is it permitted for a special commando soldier (my brother) whose wife is a niddah to hug her goodbye before leaving to fight in a special mission the accursed suicidal  terrorists, since he is truly afraid he may not see her ever  ....
											
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											# 4500- Date up to Date
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												  Q.  If I am dating or married to someone who is physically infirm or has a visual impairment, is it a violation of shomer negia to help guide them if no one else is available, even in public? Does it matter whether or not I am a nidda? 
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											# 4499-   Again Same Name
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											# 4498-    Secure Sure Security?
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												  Q. Does a Shul or institution have to inform the attendants that they are being taped by security cameras? Does it make a difference if it is during Shabbath or not? 
 
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											# 4497-   Ach! Don’t say No to Noach 
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												  Q.  Rov, we are Be’H doing the Brith Milah of our son this Thursday. Is it advisable and recommended to name him with the name of the Parsha, “Noach”? (We have a friend that died during the recent attacks with that name.) 
 
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											# 4496-  Put On your Thinking Cap 
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												  Q. Someone who is careful during Shabbos not to even scratch his hair or ruffle his beard as a precaution for not tearing his hair similar to avoid combing.   
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											# 4495 -  Anonymous Bonus Son
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												   Q. I heard today in a Shiur that Noach had actually four children. Could that be true? 
 
A.  Abarbanel (Bereishis 9: 18) mentions that he found in secular history books that claim Noach had a fourth son born to him after the Mabul and h ....
											
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											# 4494  -   Rest when Your Mind is at Rest
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												  Q.  May one say Tehillim publicly on Shabbos with a large minyan on these terrible times and recite special public own Bakoshos mentioning the names of our dear family captives? 
 
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											# 4493    Pray Tell to who you Pray
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   Q. Dear Rabbi. During the recent cruel and brutal Hamas attacks on Israel, many Arab civilians are also suffering including small children and babies. Is it correct to include them also in our Tefilot? 
 
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											# 4492    Rain me In or Out?
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												   Q.   One who started a seuda indoors on Sukkos or in any other Shabbos or Yom Tov, and because of rain or other sudden reason may he continue his seuda in a different house if  
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											# 4491   Your True Home?
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												  Q.  My son Yishay is in Jerusalem,  Israel. He started his 3rd year at Rabbi Portnoy's Yeshivah.  Do you believe he is in danger? Should I bring him home to the states? 
 
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											#4490   A Hopefully Unnecessary Shaila One Has to read
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    Q. See question above. Any other security recommendations to comply with on this particular Shabbos in a Beis Hamedresh or Shul? 
 
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