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											# 3397   What's in a Name?
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												    Q. Sometimes the minhag is to name someone using their mothers name, and sometimes using the fathers name. Why is this? what is the rule when? Mothers name only when davening for Refuah? 
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											#  3396   Lost in the Wash?
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												  Q. Hello Rav, I wanted to get some clarify on what is permitted in a room that has a shower only (no toilet) that is used regularly for bathing. I understand that Rav Ovadia allows one to listen to a Torah class while showering in such a room, but  ....
											
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											# 3395   Privy to the Privy 
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												  Q. Hello Rav, In our basement with a washroom has in it a toilet and shower stall. The shower stall is never used. I'm wondering if its permissible to use it for storage of drinks. (wine, beer, soda, water bottles). Everything is closed in their co ....
											
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											# 3394   Feast of Reason 
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												 Q. (See questions 3390 - 93 above) Is the tradition of Thanksgiving different in Canada than in the U.S. besides the date. Is the origin of the Canadian Thanksgiving religious, since it may have been instituted by the church and therefore should not ....
											
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											# 3393   Crash the Party
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												   Q. See questions  3390, 91, 92 above. 3) Often my parents invite a neighbor family to join our Thanksgiving party. They are Frum people born in Latin America and they said that in their tradition they celebrate Columbus Day. Is there a problem inv ....
											
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											# 3392   Set the Agenda
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												   Q. Since you mentioned that Igros Moshe warns that one should not make Thanksgiving an established holiday that we must keep, can the Calendar from a religious school show that day as Remembrance,Victoria and Labour days are showed? 
 
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											# 3391   Go Cold Turkey?
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												  Q. See question 3390 above. 2) Is it permitted to eat a roasted turkey on Thanksgiving? 
 
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											# 3390 Thanks But No Thanks?
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												  Q. I'm a Baal Teshuva that belongs to a family still in the process of Kiruv and becoming close to Hashem. We are a closely united family and we try to maintain seriously that Shalom Bait. 
 
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											# 3389   Walk The Talk
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												  Q. There is a Baal Teshuva that is fully integrated into the Haredi community with the exception of the fact that he cannot learn in Lashon Hakodesh and only learns from English sefarim (translated Gemara, Mishna Berura, sefarim on halacha). Other  ....
											
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											# 3388   The Easy Minyan?
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												  Q. An individual that comes to our shul suffers from a Multiple Personality Disorder. Although he can basically take care of himself, we are not sure if we should give him an aliya or even count him as part of the minyan. What is Horav Miller's opi ....
											
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											# 3387    Out of One's Hair
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												  Q. If someone combs his hair, touches it or his beard and some hair comes off, does he have to wash his hands three times using a vessel as after having a haircut? 
 
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											# 3386   Bring Back to Life?
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												  Q. I'm a Frum physician that was called out on Shabbat to travel and attend a suicidal woman that poisoned herself by swallowing a large amount of pills. Since this person had given up on her own life, as can be read in the letter she left, did I h ....
											
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											# 3385   Will Cause Eyebrows to Rise
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												   Q. Regarding question 3384 above. Recently the Rov mentioned in a shiur the prohibition for men to trim his eyebrows as women do. What happens if a man is taking a haircut, and without him noticing the barber begins to trim his eyebrows, can he le ....
											
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											# 3384   Ask and Tell
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												   Q. When exiting shul after davening on Shabbos we witnessed a severe car accident in front of the shul and a victim died. Police arrived immediately and began asking questions from the standby witnesses, writing their names, what they saw and wher ....
											
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											# 3383   An Early Night?
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												   Q In our Shul we daven these days Mincha before the Shekia and Maariv right after. Sometimes, the Shaliach Tzibur davens Mincha fast and we may end up having to start Maariv, a few minutes  before the Shekia.  
 
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											# 3382   Most Eloquent Silence 
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												  Q 3. (See questions 3379 - 80 above) Could I rotate the hours of the Tzom Dibbur, or do they have to be static, for example, from 8am to 10am? 
 
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											# 3381   Fighting Talk
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												  Q.2. (See question 3380 above) As I have to deal with my husband's caregivers, and they look for instructions, could I interrupt the Tzom just to give short and to the point instructions and then continue, or do I have to start all over again? 
											
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											# 3380   Fast Talk 
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												 Q. I have been doing Tzom Dibbur (a fast or a day of restriction on speaking) on Yom Kippur for several years. This year, I decided to do a Tzom Dibbur for part of the day every day, and I have some questions: 
 
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											# 3379   Oppose or Attract?
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												  Q. When I come (to shul to be) from the Assara Rishonim there is a person who comes and tells me Lashon Hara and disturbs my learning. Is it better to come later, since If I refuse to listen to him he will get offended and he is lonely with no fami ....
											
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											# 3378   Is Early Better than First?
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												   Q. On question 2998 regarding if it is better to be from the Assara Rishonim or to daven Vasikin. you wrote: "Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that it is preferred to daven Vasikin (at sunrise), than being from the first ten, when there is ....
											
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