Please Say/Whisper The Words Out Loud Lesson 1 - Speaking TO People Yesterday we learned about the importance of being careful about how we speak and figuring out our desired outcome before speaking badly to or about some ....
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of the most important rules to remember when you are tempted to
criticize someone or speak negatively about them is: be clear in your
mind exactly what you want this person to ....
Please Say/Whisper The Words Out Loud
Lesson 1 The torah urges the
utmost caution when delivering your opinion of someone else. Labels
such as unfriendly and disorganized can be based on little factual
evidence a ....
Please Say/Whisper The Words Out Loud Lesson 1 When we focus on what our ultimate goal is, or what our goal is for a particular situation, we will frequently find that we have no need to speak negatively of or criticize others. In ....
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Lesson 1. When you want someone to change, focus on positive methods of influencing them. People are much more open to complying with your requests when they like you. If you cause them pain and r ....
Please Say/Whisper The Words Out Loud Lesson 1
A major reason why people insult others or talk badly about them is because they lack he knowledge of alternative ways of communicating their displeasure with ....
Please Say/Whisper The Words Out Loud Lesson 1
We need to have compassion for human frailty. no one is
perfect, everyone has faults and limitations. we must be careful how we
speak to and about people even tho ....
Please Say/Whisper The Words Out Loud Lesson 1 It
is important that we learn to see people not as they are right now, but
as they could be if they were to use their potential for good. When we
view people int his manner, we wo ....
Please Say/Whisper The Words Out Loud Lesson 1
Accepting other people and their differences is one of the keys to observing the commandment of not causing others pain with words. The less you accept other pe ....
Please Say/Whisper The Words Out Loud Lesson 1
A story is told about a shidduch that was broken the day after the vort (engagement party). A message was sent to the brides family that the grooms side had heard negat ....
Please Say/Whisper The Words Out Loud Lesson 1 Rechilus (repeating information which can cause ill feelings) is forbidden even when you WRITE the information.
Lesson 1If you are about to disclose
unflattering details about a person for a shidduch but know for a fact
the person asking will not listen to your advice anyways, do ....
Lesson 1Lashon
hora is forbidden even without mentioning one word, rather when using
facial expressions like smirking, turning up ones nose, or winking in a
negat ....
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Lesson 1
About whom is it forbidden to speak lashon hora? A person who is no
longer alive. For example "My 3 year old nephew takes after my wife’s
grandfather whom he’s named ....
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Lesson 1
Generally, a person who speaks lashon hora does so from a somewhat
smug and haughty perspective. Such a person, says the chofetz chaim,
shows hi ....
Lesson 1Rechilus
includes repeating negative information which can cause bad feelings.
For example telling someone "your neighbor told me you are lazy"
Lesson 1 One
could be guilty of speaking rechilus without saying anything new. For
example. Your friend shares her day with you, "today i took my 7
children to the dentis ....
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Lesson 1
Rule 3 - when transmitting
information, do it with the mentality of AIDING the shidduch process. If you are
aware of information ....
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